How do you get your new toys into the house without pissing her off?

How about,
After you get done making me a sammich come check out my new rifle ??

XLR308 said:

How about,
After you get done making me a sammich come check out my new rifle ??

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Yep, I know how that would go in my house!

I find sneaking it in when she's not looking keeps the peace all the way around.

No matter how long I’ve had something, I always get asked......”when did we buy that?” Funny, I never remember her there when I did buy it.

Always leave the house with an extra empty rifle case.

That safe is dark and warm. They breed in there. Nothing I can do about it...

Wait for her to go to bed!

RF

Chris399 said:

No matter how long I’ve had something, I always get asked......”when did we buy that?” Funny, I never remember her there when I did buy it.

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My preferred method and seems to work pretty well so far is as follows.
I am the parts research and aquisition manager.
She is in charge of shipping and recieving.
I take the long path since I research the hell out of everything before I buy / build ( patience of a snake )
I tend to be gone working when the Brown truck drops things off so that helps with the initial sting.
Later as the questions arise throughout the process I give my best technical and statistal analysis on the end product until I get that glazed over look and then change the subject.
Taking her out on strategically planned date nights adds to the smoothing over and ass kissing process.

And most importantly I am married to a good woman that understands what a big ass kid I am.

Her: Is that a New rifle
Me: This old thing I've had it for years.
Her: How come it has a 2018 date code.
Me: (thinking to self) I'm effed, I will just throw myself on my knees and beg mercy.
Her: I guess you did not know I can read date codes.
Me: Your beautiful when your being sneaky.

Divorced her many years ago

I find it’s easiest to get permission during the research phase, which normally also sets the budget.

I remind her that I could've been one of those husbands who spends all his time at a bar, work, the golf course, my mistress' apartment that we would have to pay for, the strip club, etc. All would cost more than the guns that can ALWAYS be sold IF we need the money.

My Lady has "her own selection" and is just as eager to build "our collection" as I am. We both know how to budget what little funds we have, so when something "new" does enter the realm,,,, it's as happy a moment for her as it is for me.

And THAT, I believe, is the start of a truly happy marriage.

My wife doesn't give a shit. She gave up years and years and years ago. Only time she cares is when I leave them cased in the living room because I'm too lazy to clean and put them up. Even then, she usually won't fuck with me until my shit has sat there 2-3 days. 25 years in Nov

I never buy guns, I just screw new barrels on old ones.....Them damn scopes keep sneaking in and out though.

Sneak them in when she’s not home. Have to back my car into the garage that way the cameras outside don’t catch me opening the trunk and since she is not home it means her car isn’t in my way which in return gives me more space to run to the safe before she gets home. Just to be on the safe side I turn off all power through the circuit breaker that way no cameras catch me. Been doing it for years. Every now and then I’ll say I’m selling a rifle and buy her something nice from the “proceeds”.

My ex wife (notice it says ex) would get bent out of shape if I bought anything more than about $25. Without her prior knowledge.
Hell, that made it hard to buy reloading supplies.
Then again, she didn't think twice about spending $100 on a dinner just to shit out out the next day.
Whenever I brought a new gun in the house, I would leave it out for her to see and tell her it belonged to my dad.
He'd come over later that day to set it up with me and clean it.
We'd eat dinner and then start load work up for it so we could shoot the next day.
Some how his guns always lived at my house...

I got remarried a couple of years ago. Rebecca likes shooting and fishing. She bought my newest gun for me.
Also, last year she "told" me I needed a new boat.
Well, yes ma'am!!

Palmetto-Pride said:

I posted this and another thread in response to a similar question

Every new rifle I get comes into the house in a old rifle case usualy on a day when she knows I have been to the range. It goes like this.....

Her..."Hey babe did you have a good day shooting today?"
Me...."Yea it was great I shot pretty good today"
Her..."Thats great you need any help getting your stuff out the truck?"
Me..."No thanks babe I got it...I am going to put my rifles back in the safe.......Hey where do you want me to take you for dinner tonight?".........ha ha I feel guilty for about 5 minutes then the thought of my new rifle in the safe makes me feel better.....lol

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The answer is to not get married and then you can play with all the toys you want

"hey babe, i bought this"

"oh cool...have fun"

i'm probably the only person in my group of friends that has interactions like this with their ladies. everyone else needs "permission". what is that?

No sneaking here. We discuss purchases beforehand.

If the climate is stormy, I wait; it's always bound to change soon enough. When it changes, I remind her that we've already discussed the purchase.

Patience is a virtue. It, and honestly, has kept this marriage on an even keel for over 48 years.

Greg

Her: Is that really necessary?
Me: Yes.
Her: You have spent enough money on this hobby.
Me: You’re right. I won’t buy another (fill in the blank).

I told her this after my second US Optics scope, AMP Annealing Machine and CO-AX press. As long as I buy one big item every year, I usually don’t catch much flak.
Also, I give her zero shit about things she wants to buy. Shoes, house decorations, or planning trips. Doesn’t bother me and I tell her to go ahead.

Either don’t let her see them at all, or pull the old watch this hand while this hand does something else; i.e. hey babe I bought you these flowers. Usually works out

Jefe's Dope said:

I remind her that I could've been one of those husbands who spends all his time at a bar, work, the golf course, my mistress' apartment that we would have to pay for, the strip club, etc. All would cost more than the guns that can ALWAYS be sold IF we need the money.

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This is what I do and I do always let her in on the purchase before it is made. She does all of the bill paying at home so there is no way to hide a purchase of that magnitude but they don't occur very often. I make a large purchase every couple of years...mostly scopes and new barrels. She always cringes relative to the scope purchases but I don't get too much grief for the reasons noted above

Ghillie suit, straw purchases and a smoke grenade just in case.

I have quite the opposite problem at my house.
I am the one looking out for what my Old Squaw just purchased and is "sliding" in.
Usually a hand gun in 9mm but on occasion a neat rifle.
Actually, NEITHER of us slips shit in. It is always,
"Come here Sweetpea and look at what I just scored.!!"
Damn, that Girl can spend some money but I am Always Happy, as She always gets the Hebrew deal on everything.
I couldn't deal with her if I were the seller, She is ruthless, and when I find something I want I send her to go negotiate the deal. Saves me money every time.
I would bet a Dollar to a Dog turd, and you can hold the stakes in your mouth, that a lot of you could handle being in my shoes.
Foul Mike

Mike you just have no reason to be foul!

MarinePMI said:

If it's a high dollar purchase, we discuss it first. If it is just an accessory or a low end rifle, I just buy it and tell her afterwards. She knows this is my main hobby, and that it keeps me out of the bars and off the streets. She'd rather have me sitting at home, assembling parts or loading ammunition than running around with buddies at bars (though I still do that on occasion). The big thing is I never lie about it. It keeps the peace, as she knows, that I know, when it should be discussed before hand. (Still working on getting consent on an AXMC, since I "need" something in a long action length, and the AI-AT just won't fill that niche. ) That reminds me, I need to tell her I ordered a can last week. Ooops.

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That's similar to how I do it. My wife knows about all of my bigger purchases but she doesn't care if I buy a bunch of reloading supplies without telling her. We pretty much discuss anything over 1k before I buy it. The only thing she's said no to is an AXMC and that's simply because it's not in the budget right now. I know it's not but it's still fun to fuck with her and give her shit that she never let's me buy anything.

They are delivered during the day to me - while she is at work.

She still thinks I have like 2 rifles because they all look the same to her.

I have a feeling this is gonna turn into quite the cuck thread.

I've got it good! Mine buys lots of my guns!???

Maser said:

I have a feeling this is gonna turn into quite the cuck thread.

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Is that why you showed up?

I know I'm lucky. My wife considers firearms purchases to be a sign of family success. She goes along shopping and we celebrate each purchase by going out to dinner. Our last buy was an AX-MC and we went to a bar-b-que place near to Mile High for brews and charred beast flesh.

TheGerman said:

They are delivered during the day to me - while she is at work. She still thinks I have like 2 rifles because they all look the same to her.

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Jezus, how many MRADs you got?

TripleBull said:

I know I'm lucky. My wife considers firearms purchases to be a sign of family success. She goes along shopping and we celebrate each purchase by going out to dinner. Our last buy was an AX-MC and we went to a bar-b-que place near to Mile High for brews and charred beast flesh.



Jezus, how many MRADs you got?

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The MRAD actually consolidated a bunch of rifles that I was able to sell.

I have multiple Mk12s, which luckily look the same to her as a M110, which doesn’t seem to look any different than any of my KAC carbines because she asked me once why I took the scope off of it lol

Toss in a SAW which she thinks is my 3rd gun, she also has no understanding that I have more than one sidearm.

I got a LEED certified AC so when I have to drop smoke I blame it on the AC. The "AC" bill conveniently launders most purchases.

Marry a Dr. 24hr hospital shifts allow me to schedule stuff quite easily. ?

The same way Busenhalter-6 brings her infinite supply of new pairs of shoes into the house....

My money, my toys. My money, my shoes.

Works fine!

Cheers,

Sirhr

sirhrmechanic said:

The same way Busenhalter-6 brings her infinite supply of new pairs of shoes into the house....

My money, my toys. My money, my shoes.

Works fine!

Cheers,

Sirhr

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Though I did play a joke on her once and send her a picture of a Hughes Helicopter I supposedly was towing home behind my truck. She was not happy about that. What was really behind the truck was a cannon. So when I got it home, she was quite relieved.

Cheers,

Sirhr

Busenhalter 6 is going to be my new call sign.

^^^ It's taken! And I am betting you aren't about to grow tits on your back!

Cheers,

Sirhr

My method is pretty simple.

I get two rifles, paint one of them pink and give it to her.

hookedonbrass said:

"hey babe, i bought this"

"oh cool...have fun"

i'm probably the only person in my group of friends that has interactions like this with their ladies. everyone else needs "permission". what is that?

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Because they haven't established proper biblical dominance in their relationship. I have established leadership, love and trust with my wife so any toys bought, she knows she can trust the bills will still be paid.

My wife and I have an understanding regarding this. Many years ago, while we were dating, she asked why I had so many guns. My response was: "For the same reason you have many different purses and pairs of shoes. ". I haven't complained about her purchases of shoes or purses and she doesn't complain about firearm purchases by me.

TripleBull said:

...Jesus, how many MRADs you got?

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All of them

Dirty D said:

All of them

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All your MRADs are belong to us...

My wife has only really complained twice over the years. The last time I told her “I don’t chase women, I have a solid career, I’m not a drunk or a junkie, you & the kids don’t have to worry about food, clothes or shelter.” Everything was going well until I asked her “Do you know how many women would pay to have your problems?” Then she was pissed.

I don’t get onto her when she buys shoes, clothes, purses, etc. We always discuss large purchases prior to actually purchasing whatever it is that requires joint approval.

flyer said:

I got a LEED certified AC so when I have to drop smoke I blame it on the AC. The "AC" bill conveniently launders most purchases.

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I've laundered a lot of stuff with 0% credit cards.