Re: getting someone to reload????
There are a few places that do custom loads. But to get it tuned to your rifle, you really need to do it yourself. Consistency in a load is more important if you ask me than anything else, so weighing each and every component of every load is paramount. This takes time. I'd advise to look into how the Marines load their ammo for their marksmanship unit. It is on "How it's Made" or some show like that; you could find it if intersted enough. That kind of care and customization can only be found in your own basement or for a pretty penny. You neighbor probably isn't the guy to trust, regardless of how adept he is. I wouldn't trust someone even if knew they were better than me.
I wouldn't trust someone else's reloads for one reason: I have loaded a lot before that had a load with no or little powder. Just enough power to stick the bullet in the barrel. Had to pull the whole 1000 and I found one more. This was when I first started years ago.
I am very careful, even moreso now, but accidents can happen.
The other thing is liability. Where I might trade some of my target loads, I'd be very hesitant to do it on a regular basis. Then you kind of become a distributor, if only to one person, and sort of take on a responsibility. Now those places that do custom loads, they are very pricey, but it is because of the custom nature and the fact they are insured.
You can get a decent loading kit for about the price of 100 custom loads I'd guess, those custom loads are very expensive. Loading is also fun in its own respect, quiet and thoughtful. You can also work up loads as you see fit, and there are near infinite combinations of powder, bullet and recipe. Because you are loading quality over quantity, the single stage simple setup is all you really need. I still use the single stage that I got over a decade ago; I did get a digital dispenser but it wasn't essential.
I get sub-MOA on my 6.5 Grendel, .33" group was my best, just one ragged hole at 100m. The rifle is damn nice, but the loads are where the magic happens.
I can't stress enough how nice it is to have your own loads.