Re: Buffer, pins and small parts.
Umm, hate to be rude but if you don't know about parts kits should you really be assembling a rifle?
Most manufacturers of ARs sell lower parts kits (LPK), you can get them with or without FCG, from $30(-FCG) on into the hundreds, some dealers will upgrade the FCG and/or grip as those are the two most commonly swapped parts. People will argue but for a BASIC kit I don't see how quality could differ or matter enough to justify the higher end, maybe I've just been lucky and never got a completely out of spec p.o.s.
Buffers don't affect accuracy, they do affect timing, and perceived recoil. Fixed stock/rifle receiver extension, just get a rifle buffer, or get the JP low mass system if you must have something different, collapsible stock/carbine receiver extension probably H2 maybe H3, but with adjustable gas it shouldn't matter as much, and lighter will cycle with lighter loads unsuppressed.