Re: Win Brass VS Lapua brass
Other than Lapua brass looking refined and cool, I have not seen it to provide any measurable benefit over other brass.
For example:
I got a 5 gallon bucket filled with mid-60s through mid-70s vintage 7.62 brass. I did sort it, and got several large lots of like headstamps. IVI69, IVI70, TW66 and LC71... In particular, the IVI69 was ugly. Flash holes were badly off centered and had lots of "hanging chads". My prep work including swaging the primer pockets and trimming to ~2.010".
Admittedly, to achieve the same 2675fps MV that 45.5gr Varget + 175smk was yielding in the Lapua brass, I had to back the charge down to 44.75gr. Once I did that, the IVI69 cartridges could be mixed with my Lapua cartridges with no ill effects on group size...which is to say, they shot better than me. I was able to print 1/4 moa groups a couple times, though I am not a 1/4 moa shooter, so I can't do it "all day long" nor can I do a 5x5 like that.
If you're running some kind of whiz-bang close neck clearance chamber, the Lapua brass will undoubtedly maintain closer neck thickness. In a field rifle with ample neck clearance though, this point is moot.
On Federal brass being really soft:
That's not my experience. 45.5gr Varget + 175smk = 2675fps in my 308 with either Lapua, Winchester, PMC, Federal or RP brass.
If I bump that charge to 45.75gr, all of the above cases will "push a button", where the casehead will start to flow into the ejector hole in the boltface. Kept at or below 45.5gr Varget, I've never worn out a piece of brass except when firing wet cartridges (that loosens a primer pocket on the first shot) or in load development when I've gone overcharged, Federal included. Admittedly though, my oldest batch of FC cases only had 10 or 11 firings on them. Still took a primer tightly, good to go.
I suppose the Lapua cases might survive a long-term torture test better than the rest, but I'm a practical field shooter, and I'll lose the brass before I ever wear it out.
Also consider that by the time you've fired a 308 (read: inexpensive) case even 5 or 6 times, the "cost per firing" is rapidly reaching zero.