During my hippie days, I lived in a coed buddhist monastery as a lay-person (a non monastic). It was a ocean cliff side dwelling at the tip of nowhere. Everyone took a vow to be celibate (I thought they said celebrate

). What a joke that was. Everyone was screwing, including the lesbian director. My experience was that the women were most often the initiators. I was getting hit on constantly.
You put men and women together and these things are going to happen.