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Otherwise insignificant things that makes your day.

LuckyDuck

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    Carrying on with my previous "having a great day" thread... I give you the thread of otherwise insignificant things that just make your day... Doesn't even need to make sense to anyone else... just some ridiculous thing that makes you happy. This will all but certainly piss all the/my haters off too... which brings me to my #1 actually (of course I'll start this off).

    1. Living my "best life" and knowing it aggravates others for no reason other than my mood is not being dictated by what they want. Truth be told "best life" is a ridiculous phrase (at least in my opinion) that's a "hashtag" now. All I'm saying is haters are going to hate but they'll never hate harder than they will when they realize you just frankly don't care what they think. Something magical about feeling good & knowing that it's pissing the haters off even more am I right?

    2. Moving back to more mundane things- for the life of me one of my most absolute favorite things is going to bed when the sheets have been freshly washed. I've struggled with sleep issues for many years but that first night in clean sheets... I can't explain it but it just hits harder than any Ambien I've taken.

    3. That "new gun day" feeling. Not sure how others operate but for me I've always been one to analyze the crap out of various models to pick the one specific configuration I want & then to chase it with trying to find a good deal. If you're anything like me, you have a list of guns you want & a price tag you've mentally allocated to spend and it's awesome when the stars line up and you got that new chunk of steel in your collection.

    4. This might be oddly specific to me but I've shared here my exploration in automatic watches over the past year. I've been evaluating a half dozen or so lately and I've gotten great satisfaction out of wearing 'em & learning their accuracy. I thought I was having an issue with a Seiko diver I recently purchased and was concerned that I somehow screwed up the date/day mechanism because it's apparently a "thing" to set it during a certain window of time (which I didn't) but I spent the past week not being able to sync the current time with the day & date. Whelp- the past two days (I'm not even sure what I did 'right') my one diver is now running accurate (+8-10 seconds a day) but more importantly the day of the week and the actual date are now synchronized and that has me much happier than it rightfully should.

    5. On the way to work yesterday there was a trivia question on the radio on what hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia was and I knew (not guessed) but actually knew it was the fear of long words. The look my wife gave me when I said that was priceless and made me feel... well young again, almost like when we first started dating and everything was new & you were impressive in what you knew & could do.

    6. Wrapping up for at least the first post- but as an example of thins that don't cost a thing- when your spouse gives you that look of surprise (I almost think it gets better the older you get because you see it less & less) but "that" look of when you both surprise & impress them... damn if that doesn't make my day.

    -LD
     
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    7. Have you ever lost touch with an otherwise close friend and for circumstances (no falling out or anything like that) but you just et busy with life and lose touch? And then 6 months turns into a year and then one year turns into 3 years and you haven't talked to an old friend? There's nothing quite like saying "today is the day" and "routine be damned" and man-up & reach out to them to see what's up? I did that at least twice in the past year with otherwise good friends who I just lost contact with for no reason other than we both got busy with our own lives. Let me tell you- there's nothing quite like the moment when you get over the perceived awkwardness and you're able to skip 2, 3, 4 years of no contact and pick up back where you left the friendship.

    I'd highly recommend this one from personal experience.
     
    I have to agree with you on going to work doing a great job, being happy and everyone around you getting pissed off because you are happy.
    I had one of the HR people ask me one day How come you are always in a good mood ? I replied it pisses everyone off, she laughed.
     
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    8. Ever come back home and feel like you just had your teeth absolutely kicked in? Doesn't matter if it was a work thing, a family thing, a friend thing, hell doesn't even matter if you deserved it. Just that "teeth kicked in" feeling for whatever reason and have your pet (dog/cat/whatever) sense that and either climb up on your lap/sit next to you when they usually are bouncing off the walls looking to play or be fed...? Damn there's nothing quite like that (at least in this Duck's opinion).

    -LD
     
    I have to agree with you on going to work doing a great job, being happy and everyone around you getting pissed off because you are happy.
    I had one of the HR people ask me one day How come you are always in a good mood ? I replied it pisses everyone off, she laughed.
    My wife now works in HR and the one thing I've learned- you don't really have a great joke until HR asks you to tell them it a few times. That's how you know you've got a good one!

    -LD
     
    9. Ever have a fart that you didn't know if you could trust and circumstances required you to throw caution to the wind (no pun intended) and just let 'er rip? And then only to be pleasantly surprised that you didn't shit your pants? That's a good day too.

    -LD
     
    8. Ever come back home and feel like you just had your teeth absolutely kicked in? Doesn't matter if it was a work thing, a family thing, a friend thing, hell doesn't even matter if you deserved it. Just that "teeth kicked in" feeling for whatever reason and have your pet (dog/cat/whatever) sense that and either climb up on your lap/sit next to you when they usually are bouncing off the walls looking to play or be fed...? Damn there's nothing quite like that (at least in this Duck's opinion).

    -LD
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    In regards to #8... this guy is a colossal asshole but fits the criteria & came down to say "hi".

    -LD
     
    Clean sheets is a good one.

    New Socks.

    Shave and shower.

    Clean vehicle.

    Complimenting people/strangers on little stupid things and seeing their expression.

    Watching the sun rise on an early morning and realizing how insignificant I am in this rat race world, but yet how lucky to be alive to see it.

    Everytime I see my nephew......he looks just like my brother as a kid, and it reminds me of all the stupid shit he and I did as kids.
     
    Carrying on with my previous "having a great day" thread... I give you the thread of otherwise insignificant things that just make your day... Doesn't even need to make sense to anyone else... just some ridiculous thing that makes you happy. This will all but certainly piss all the/my haters off too... which brings me to my #1 actually (of course I'll start this off).

    1. Living my "best life" and knowing it aggravates others for no reason other than my mood is not being dictated by what they want. Truth be told "best life" is a ridiculous phrase (at least in my opinion) that's a "hashtag" now. All I'm saying is haters are going to hate but they'll never hate harder than they will when they realize you just frankly don't care what they think. Something magical about feeling good & knowing that it's pissing the haters off even more am I right?

    2. Moving back to more mundane things- for the life of me one of my most absolute favorite things is going to bed when the sheets have been freshly washed. I've struggled with sleep issues for many years but that first night in clean sheets... I can't explain it but it just hits harder than any Ambien I've taken.

    3. That "new gun day" feeling. Not sure how others operate but for me I've always been one to analyze the crap out of various models to pick the one specific configuration I want & then to chase it with trying to find a good deal. If you're anything like me, you have a list of guns you want & a price tag you've mentally allocated to spend and it's awesome when the stars line up and you got that new chunk of steel in your collection.

    4. This might be oddly specific to me but I've shared here my exploration in automatic watches over the past year. I've been evaluating a half dozen or so lately and I've gotten great satisfaction out of wearing 'em & learning their accuracy. I thought I was having an issue with a Seiko diver I recently purchased and was concerned that I somehow screwed up the date/day mechanism because it's apparently a "thing" to set it during a certain window of time (which I didn't) but I spent the past week not being able to sync the current time with the day & date. Whelp- the past two days (I'm not even sure what I did 'right') my one diver is now running accurate (+8-10 seconds a day) but more importantly the day of the week and the actual date are now synchronized and that has me much happier than it rightfully should.

    5. On the way to work yesterday there was a trivia question on the radio on what hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia was and I knew (not guessed) but actually knew it was the fear of long words. The look my wife gave me when I said that was priceless and made me feel... well young again, almost like when we first started dating and everything was new & you were impressive in what you knew & could do.

    6. Wrapping up for at least the first post- but as an example of thins that don't cost a thing- when your spouse gives you that look of surprise (I almost think it gets better the older you get because you see it less & less) but "that" look of when you both surprise & impress them... damn if that doesn't make my day.

    -LD
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    Referencing #4 there... I cannot begin to explain how excited I am to have the time/day/date all synced now after screwing with it for a few days. This is not by any means an "expensive" watch.. just a Seiko "Turtle" dive watch. Looks good, keeps good time and costs less than a Glock while still being an automatic & dive watch. I'll give Seiko one thing too- while screwing around with various watches this year- nobody does lume like Seiko does- they've been the absolute best in my experience across all models.

    I'm a happy duck & it really doesn't take much these days.

    -LD
     
    Clean sheets is a good one.

    New Socks.

    Shave and shower.

    Clean vehicle.

    Complimenting people/strangers on little stupid things and seeing their expression.

    Watching the sun rise on an early morning and realizing how insignificant I am in this rat race world, but yet how lucky to be alive to see it.

    Everytime I see my nephew......he looks just like my brother as a kid, and it reminds me of all the stupid shit he and I did as kids.

    Those are all great contributions. That's one point where my wife & I differ drastically. A cluttered/dirty vehicle gives me tremendous anxiety and she couldn't be more indifferent. Many years ago when I was courting her- I used to wash/wax my car (a glamorous Mazda 3 don't ya know) & vacuum it out before our dates. Sounds silly now but that's what I did and for one reason or another felt rather strongly about it too. I'll tell ya what- that car was beautiful all the time (regardless of where it sat in cost pecking order- the fact it was mine was all I cared about).

    Great addition with sunrises too- if you'll allow me to piggyback off that sentiment- I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed by any stretch but one thing I did recognize was the beauty of the night sky while "living" in some of the worst places on earth. It's really something else being able to see actual color differences amongst the stars.


    If you have any good Uncle advice... I'm primed & ready for some myself. I just learned I'm going to be an Uncle for the 1st time in my life about a month or two ago.


    Either way- appreciate you sharing your thoughts/good will.

    -LD
     
    10. Ever have one of those "inner Michael Jordan" moments where you tossed something... say a bottle into the recycle bin or a piece of dirty laundry into the hamper and just SINK it... I'm talking nothing but net type of perfect throw & have it make your entire day?

    -LD
     
    12. Remember that time where you blatantly pulled a shot... doesn't matter what the circumstance- maybe a pheasant or clay popped out in front of you or you were taking a shot at the edge of your comfort zone on a prized buck and despite jacking up the shot you still ended up pulling off the most perfect shot at whatever your target was? If there was a witness to such a spectacle you'll hold onto that memory for decades. Of course at the time you just casually brush things off like that's how you always "operate" but inside you can't believe you pulled that shit off?

    That's a great day.

    -LD
     
    13. Shy pooper? Ever have an imminent bathroom emergency that forces you to use the workplace commode and by the grace of Zeus the entire bathroom was vacant when you entered, did your business, & left?

    That's a fantastic day.

    -LD
     
    14. Remember those few days where you had an important appointment and everything single thing life could throw at you came preventing you from leaving when you intended but yet you still arrived on time despite all odds and you casually played it off like everything went to plan the whole time?

    That's fortune smiling on you my friend.

    -LD
     
    15. You know that one time you're making dinner... maybe you're playing pit master and throwing slabs of meat on a grill or smoker or you had a major holiday dinner dumped on you by your family and the gods smiled on you and you just pulled it off with perfection and all you can do is secretly question how the hell that happened but outwardly you act like this is normal for you. And you know they'll be talking about this meal & your 'skill' for at least the next year...

    Damned good stuff there.

    -LD
     
    16. Remember that one time you had a dental appointment after 6 months or so and you'd slacking like nobody's business in brushing/flossing your teeth and all but convinced that you'll have at least a cavity or two? And then only to be told by the dentist/dental hygienist to keep doing what you're doing because your teeth were really clean?

    Fuck yeah!

    -LD
     
    I wanted to make sure my son grew up with a good sense of humor, because in this world you need it to not go crazy.

    I told him last year (he's turning 17 this year) that the best way to stay safe driving is to assume everyone else on the road is a fucking moron (which isn't far from the truth, sadly).

    Without missing a beat, he smiled and said "so if we're in separate vehicles does that mean I have to assume the same of you?"

    I just smiled a shit eating grin and said "YUP!"

    Mission accomplished.
     
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    I wanted to make sure my son grew up with a good sense of humor, because in this world you need it to not go crazy.

    I told him last year (he's turning 17 this year) that the best way to stay safe driving is to assume everyone else on the road is a fucking moron (which isn't far from the truth, sadly).

    Without missing a beat, he smiled and said "so if we're in separate vehicles does that mean I have to assume the same of you?"

    I just smiled a shit eating grin and said "YUP!"

    Mission accomplished.
    I know this is the Pit & all but you genuinely sound like a good Dad & that you're raising a good son. Now with that touchy feely crap out of the way- back to your regularly scheduled Pit discussions.

    -LD