i do not have access to torque screw driver at this time so just used the small Allen key style wrench that commonly comes with mounts. i tightened down my aimpoint comp ml3 in my larue cantilever mount as directed using holding the key by the small end and then after every thing was tight i gave the screws a little more love holding the key by the long end just to get every thing uniformly tight. nothing crazy, just tight. am i okay? how crazy do you have to go before you are doing damage to your optic? what are the dangers of going too tight? does it sound like i have exceeded those dangers by doing what i have described?