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Poll: I'm done with visiting large US cities - How about the rest of you?

Likelihood of visiting big cities

  • More likely to visit

  • Same as six months ago

  • Less likely

  • Fuck the cities

  • I love the city


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Redmanss

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I'm a traveler, and I'm never content sitting still. I've visited cities all over the world, checking off one historic city after another, and the same goes with our American cities. I would go out of my way just to drive through downtown on a time pressed road trip, just to see what it looks like. Some I really enjoyed visiting because of their architecture, vibrance, or history (Chicago, Miami and Boston all come to mind in this, respectively), others I saw, checked them off the list, didn't lose anything and have no need to go back (Memphis, San Fran and New Orleans for these). But, regardless what I thought of them, I tried to at least take time to dip my toes into their culture, enjoy some good food and shopping, just play the tourist, drop some money and go on my way. I've never had a bad experience in any of them, no parking tickets, never mugged despite many requiring me to leave the gun at home or at least in the car, but even with Memphis, a real third world shit hole, I didn't leave wishing I had never come there in the first place.

To my point though, I'm not doing this shit any more. Cities have finally hit PNG status with me, and instead of making a point of visiting, I'm now going to make a point of hitting the beltway just to never enter their limits. I'm washing my hands of them, opting to avoid whenever possible, and when not (work related), I'm going to make a point to not give them a penny of business that I can't avoid. They've burned their bridge, no more tolerance from me of their traffic/crime/prices/stench.

Some city folk may think I'm being extreme, or that I'm pointing the finger at the wrong place, punishing the business owners and employees for lost business due to decisions make by a select few and the politicians. Well, I point the finger at every one of their citizens, they voted their shit into office, they can fuck off and stew in it for all I care.



P.S.: I hope the feeling is mutual and they stay the fuck out of my state and small towns too. Seriously, we don't want their kind around, and in that I know for a fact I'm far from alone.
 
I have to travel to a large city for work a couple weeks per month, other than that I agree, fuck em. Every weekend in the summer my small town is invaded by Fillatians (fillatio+Phoenicians, people from Phoenix), but highway patrol told us blocking the highway wasn’t allowed.
 
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I left the DC Metro area 20 years ago because I hated cities then. I was willing to give up a nice house, nice job and a bitch of an ex-wife, to never live near one again. I'm now 4 hours away from any large cities and that is too fucking close for me. Now that BLM/Antifa/Democrats control them and they don't want any cops around, fuck them and their city.
 
Laramie is as big a city as I can stand. If it weren't for the damn university, it would be about perfect.
 
Would never go except for work. The paranoia-demic will end up allowing me to work from home for 9 months. Lovin' it!
 
I'm a traveler, and I'm never content sitting still. I've visited cities all over the world, checking off one historic city after another, and the same goes with our American cities. I would go out of my way just to drive through downtown on a time pressed road trip, just to see what it looks like. Some I really enjoyed visiting because of their architecture, vibrance, or history (Chicago, Miami and Boston all come to mind in this, respectively), others I saw, checked them off the list, didn't lose anything and have no need to go back (Memphis, San Fran and New Orleans for these). But, regardless what I thought of them, I tried to at least take time to dip my toes into their culture, enjoy some good food and shopping, just play the tourist, drop some money and go on my way. I've never had a bad experience in any of them, no parking tickets, never mugged despite many requiring me to leave the gun at home or at least in the car, but even with Memphis, a real third world shit hole, I didn't leave wishing I had never come there in the first place.

To my point though, I'm not doing this shit any more. Cities have finally hit PNG status with me, and instead of making a point of visiting, I'm now going to make a point of hitting the beltway just to never enter their limits. I'm washing my hands of them, opting to avoid whenever possible, and when not (work related), I'm going to make a point to not give them a penny of business that I can't avoid. They've burned their bridge, no more tolerance from me of their traffic/crime/prices/stench.

Some city folk may think I'm being extreme, or that I'm pointing the finger at the wrong place, punishing the business owners and employees for lost business due to decisions make by a select few and the politicians. Well, I point the finger at every one of their citizens, they voted their shit into office, they can fuck off and stew in it for all I care.



P.S.: I hope the feeling is mutual and they stay the fuck out of my state and small towns too. Seriously, we don't want their kind around, and in that I know for a fact I'm far from alone.
I don’t think you’re being extreme at all. Couldn’t agree more.
 
I'm a traveler, and I'm never content sitting still. I've visited cities all over the world, checking off one historic city after another, and the same goes with our American cities. I would go out of my way just to drive through downtown on a time pressed road trip, just to see what it looks like. Some I really enjoyed visiting because of their architecture, vibrance, or history (Chicago, Miami and Boston all come to mind in this, respectively), others I saw, checked them off the list, didn't lose anything and have no need to go back (Memphis, San Fran and New Orleans for these). But, regardless what I thought of them, I tried to at least take time to dip my toes into their culture, enjoy some good food and shopping, just play the tourist, drop some money and go on my way. I've never had a bad experience in any of them, no parking tickets, never mugged despite many requiring me to leave the gun at home or at least in the car, but even with Memphis, a real third world shit hole, I didn't leave wishing I had never come there in the first place.

To my point though, I'm not doing this shit any more. Cities have finally hit PNG status with me, and instead of making a point of visiting, I'm now going to make a point of hitting the beltway just to never enter their limits. I'm washing my hands of them, opting to avoid whenever possible, and when not (work related), I'm going to make a point to not give them a penny of business that I can't avoid. They've burned their bridge, no more tolerance from me of their traffic/crime/prices/stench.

Some city folk may think I'm being extreme, or that I'm pointing the finger at the wrong place, punishing the business owners and employees for lost business due to decisions make by a select few and the politicians. Well, I point the finger at every one of their citizens, they voted their shit into office, they can fuck off and stew in it for all I care.



P.S.: I hope the feeling is mutual and they stay the fuck out of my state and small towns too. Seriously, we don't want their kind around, and in that I know for a fact I'm far from alone.
Yeah, I've never been a city person. I'm more of my closest neighbor being 5 miles down the road. My wife is more of neighbors being 2 miles down the road. I grew up in New Jersey, but a small town of 3k people. I dont go to the cities now, mostly because I hate going out period unless its hunting, hiking or shooting. But to willingly go there or live there...nope.
 
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I moved outside a small town 45 years ago and would be perfectly happy to never visit a large city ever again. I guess the only time I lived in a city was Brooklyn from 1948 - 1953. I was a child and really don't remember it. My Dad hated it there, other than going to Dodger stadium, and always said he wanted to live in a place where he could stand naked on his back porch and scream at the top of his lungs and not bother anyone. I guess I'm living his dream.
 
I live in a large city... it has some benefits but I’m out of here as fast as possible. I’d much rather live out in the middle of nowhere.
 
I live in a large city... it has some benefits but I’m out of here as fast as possible. I’d much rather live out in the middle of nowhere.

I live 30 minutes outside of Tampa and that's too close for me.
You mention that living in the city has some benefits. I fail to understand what those benefits are.

The only benefit I could see is that the city gives the fucktards a place to live and it keeps them away from the burbs (I wish) and the flyover areas.
 
I live 30 minutes outside of Tampa and that's too close for me.
You mention that living in the city has some benefits. I fail to understand what those benefits are.

The only benefit I could see is that the city gives the fucktards a place to live and it keeps them away from the burbs (I wish) and the flyover areas.

the only benefit is I am 30 minutes from an airport than can take me anywhere I want in the world, as well as probably the best hospital collection in the world. Now that my job is pretty much remote, it’s hard to see why I need to be here though. Although some of the restaurants are pretty darn good too. Again, I’d trade all of that for living on land in the middle of nowhere.
 
I heard there’s a new city that was just established in the PNW. It’s apparently a friendly small town utopia but still has some big city history scattered about. Maybe it’s the best if both worlds? I think it’s run by a dude named Chad or Chaz or something. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
I heard there’s a new city that was just established in the PNW. It’s apparently a friendly small town utopia but still has some big city history scattered about. Maybe it’s the best if both worlds? I think it’s run by a dude named Chad or Chaz or something. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Hahaha. What a shitshow.
 
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the only benefit is I am 30 minutes from an airport than can take me anywhere I want in the world, as well as probably the best hospital collection in the world. Now that my job is pretty much remote, it’s hard to see why I need to be here though. Although some of the restaurants are pretty darn good too. Again, I’d trade all of that for living on land in the middle of nowhere.

That makes sense.
I still prefer to drive wherever possible and eating out (Except for Chicken Taco Loco and Smokin Joe's BBQ) doesn't do much for me.
 
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Not only do I hate to go into a city, I'm to the point when traveling anywhere outside of a 25 mile radius, my get home,... No Matter What Bag,... is riding shotgun. Plus the std load out gets tuned up an added to. This even takes place knowing I will not go near any shithole city while on nothing but two lane back country roads. This past weekend went to a auction in Calhoun Ga. and while talking over coffee with folks I've never met. This very subject came up. Listening to what many had to say was interesting.
 
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I'm an introvert, so if there is something I like less than being around people, it's being around millions of people. So I don't tend to do the big-city stuff that often, and it's even less likely now. Events so far in 2020 seem to suggest that stacking a lot of people in a small space is not the greatest idea.

Of course, it's possible that various forms of fuckery comes to small towns as well. But that's not going to make big cities any more attractive.
 
I live 30 minutes outside of Tampa and that's too close for me.
You mention that living in the city has some benefits. I fail to understand what those benefits are.

The only benefit I could see is that the city gives the fucktards a place to live and it keeps them away from the burbs (I wish) and the flyover areas.

At this point I share Red's point of view. Thirty years ago I swore Id never cross the Hudson south of Tarrytown (NY)and I havent. They do, however have their place. I used to enjoy going to DC to the Kennedy Center for concerts, ballets and what have you. Or to visit the National Cathedral or Arboretum. Now, I prefer to sit on the porch and listen to the trees grow. To much b/s in the cities and fuck the traffic.
 
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I heard there’s a new city that was just established in the PNW. It’s apparently a friendly small town utopia but still has some big city history scattered about. Maybe it’s the best if both worlds? I think it’s run by a dude named Chad or Chaz or something. 🤷🏻‍♀️
You should invest in real estate there
 
I'm an introvert, so if there is something I like less than being around people, it's being around millions of people. So I don't tend to do the big-city stuff that often, and it's even less likely now.
This

Of course, it's possible that various forms of fuckery comes to small towns as well.
Except the reception won't be as welcoming.

I had to go to Miami-Dade county recently to visit my parents. That place makes my skin crawl.
 
I used to intentionally visit cities years ago. Like Redmanss, I've travelled around the world, but haven't done much OCONUS, other than visit our crazy cousins in Canada in over a decade.

I don't plan on much if any remaining OCONUS travel within my lifetime - Canada excluded which is mostly focused in Alberta.

I've avoided cities whenever possible for quite a long time and don't plan on changing that.

Similar to my approach to cities, I don't care for events where large groups of people gather - always a shit show in waiting .

I don't have the patience to deal with traffic ingress or egress from such events any longer - been there done that, and its just not important to my life.
 
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Can't beat the good food and active nightlife that big cities have to offer. I get bored easy and the rural setting that I grew up in just doesn't live up to my standards nowadays.
 
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Already been stated, and I have to agree. I'm an introvert, don't want to be around people. I used to live in the country, but the city has grown out toward me. Time to look further out. What I've never understood is how/why city dwellers move out and bring their city mentality with them? The thing they dislike enough to leave is exactly what they want when they get here. One thing that spreads faster then COVID is the ignorance of the masses!
 
I'm from a small rural town born & raised there lived there about half my life & loved it, now live in a smaller city about 200,000 in a pretty conservative area, moved here for work, have not had much of the stupidity here a little but was shut down quickly by the local police dept & sheriff's dept, have a pretty good sheriff, will not put up with this shit. Recently retired and the wife and I are planning a move to a small town pop about 1000, can't wait to get out of where I'm at. The closest big city is about 4-1/2 hours away and never go there has nothing to offer except a shit ton of people, traffic, full of stupid liberal morons it's nothing more than a shithole, guess we're trying to get back to our roots small town rural living for us.
 
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Its been a long time since I felt safe driving in big cities that I didn't know where the bad parts to stay out of were. Now that is simple, I am just staying out entirely.
 
I live in a city of abut 200,000 people. Not large, but not small. Until recently, I liked the city I live in, but now, it's becoming a democratic shithole like every other democratic shithole. It really makes me sad.
That said, when i retire, this is where I'm retiring to. About a mile to the first neighbor, and abut 35 miles to the nearest city.

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Rural areas and small towns have some appeal, but I'd much rather have access to the things a city offers on the regular than have to travel to find them. Additionally, I can't stand going somewhere and seeing someone I know ... happened entirely too much where I used to live.
 
So i have property in BFE, as in the nearest stoplight is 50 miles in any direction. Nearest town is so small it doesn’t even have a stop sign down the main road. There is no sewer or water service, just a town well that is stupid cheap to fill water tank ls with or there is a delivery service that is reasonably priced. Its quiet, i can shoot in any direction, game animals and lots of dirt roads going all over the place. It has 2 small lakes with fish just on the edge of town. There is a couple restaurants and a couple gas stations as its on a trucking route. Whenever i come back to town i am grumpy.
 
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"I enjoy the easy access to resources" = I like being able to get drugs easily.
"The night life is exciting" = Pretty neat to wake up and hear how many people were shot last night.
"There are so many more food options" = I'm a millennial metro-sexual who has to try every new taco stand that pops up and I need to taste test every craft beer so I can tell my friends my uneducated opinion on brew and taste.

I appreciate the optimism of those who claim the city isn't that bad, if you have money, don't stay out after dark, and only hang out on the hipster side of town surrounded by a sizable swarm of other hipsters.
 
I really don't think there is a big city in this country that is not a liberal socialist shithole and has anything to offer other than tons of people, horrible traffic stupid leftist shit going on all the time, to each their own but I would rather live somewhere I at least know what to expect from the people around me. I know even rural areas have scumbags but at least you know who they are and how to deal with them, right now I have a 45 min drive to my home range nice range steel out to a mile, never crowded just a pleasure to go shoot, last few times I've been there was the only one on the range, really don't want to live somewhere the ranges are crowded with fucking gangsta idiots, or have to drive 2-3 hours to a range that is probably still crowded and not a lot of fun to shoot, everyone has the right to make their own decisions but big city's are not for me, and if you choose to live in one good luck.
 
Fuck cities, the drive to and from them alone fills me with rage dodging the incompetent morons, who cant drive worth a shit.
 
"Same as six months ago" which is to say, I have little use for large cities and have always avoided them.
 
I really don't think there is a big city in this country that is not a liberal socialist shithole and has anything to offer other than tons of people, horrible traffic stupid leftist shit going on all the time, to each their own but I would rather live somewhere I at least know what to expect from the people around me. I know even rural areas have scumbags but at least you know who they are and how to deal with them, right now I have a 45 min drive to my home range nice range steel out to a mile, never crowded just a pleasure to go shoot, last few times I've been there was the only one on the range, really don't want to live somewhere the ranges are crowded with fucking gangsta idiots, or have to drive 2-3 hours to a range that is probably still crowded and not a lot of fun to shoot, everyone has the right to make their own decisions but big city's are not for me, and if you choose to live in one good luck.

Socialist shitholes populate themselves with their groupthink from the Universities, which is populated by large companies and corporations, bringing more people inline with their ways and makes them financially dependent upon the city for income., and completes the cycle of stupid.

It's all part of Agenda 21, 2030 and 2050, bring everyone in from rural America to the cities, make them dependent upon the cities and control every aspect of their lives.

So in line with the Topic of this thread, my recommendation is to be a minimum of 35-50 miles away from any major university, and you've avoided the cities.
 
At one point cities had their value. As Aristotle put it, the 'Polis' was people coming together in a cohesive manner for the common good. Unfortunately the polis has grown out of proportion and lost all cohesiveness and is rapidly descending into anarchy and chaos.