Re: Seating depth ??'s
A general rule of thumb has always been seat the bullet at least 1 caliber (.308 in a 30 cal., 1/4" for a 25 cal and so on). But on a few cases like the 300 WinMag the case neck isn't 1 caliber long.
It isn't how long to seat the bullets. It's how close to the lands do you get the end of the bullet. Some bullets like to be seated right against the lands. Some prefer a jump to get things going.
Since you have a custom barrel, a lot is going to depend on what reamer the 'smith chambered it with. Most factory chambers are so long they can't be touched with the bullet seated in the case.
Be aware, when you start getting close to the lands you are going to have pressure spikes. DO NOT try to touch the lands with a max load. You might have an explosion of brass or primer let go. Inches from your face isn't a good place for that to happen.
For knowledge sake, barely seat a bullet of your choice in an UNPRIMED case with a saw slit in the neck. This will provide some tension to hold the bullet. But not so much that you can't push the bullet in when you close the bolt. Be careful when you remove the case & bullet that it doesn't go flying across the room. If you drop it the measurement can change. Measure the Over All Length with dial calipers (or use a bullet comparitor on the calipers for a better number) and record in your handloading notebook for future refrence.
Every different bullet you try will need to be done this way. If you are shooting Sierra SMK's and want to shoot Berger's, you need to measure the Bergers. If you have those 2 recorded and want to shoot some Hornady, record that as well.
This number will change after about every 500 to 800 rounds by as much as .005" as the throat erodes.
I hope this helps. Good luck.