I was better off before I ever read that article, or heard what an "incel" was. I get why they wouldn't want to be called the names that I would call them, but "incel" is creepier. When i first saw it I thought imbedded or infested terrorist cell.
This is how the snowflake, self esteem crap becomes dangerous and not funny anymore. Encouraging self-pity, cultivating jealousy, fetishizing equality, and victimhood as moral authority is absolutely poison, and this is what the result looks like.
The short answer is that they're not even trying. There are just as many ugly, looser women as there are men. I think the internet, abundant, free internet porn, and all the other electronic crap is more to blame than anything. It allows pathetic losers to stay that way comfortably rather than confronting their choices and lifestyle. Turn the computer off, get the fuck out or your mom's basement, and start living your life.