I hope that made you feel better- I'm not even going to engage into this circular debate with you. If that's what you got out of it- so be it. And to be fair- I'm just some rando internet stranger and you also have the "privilege of also being anonymous" to shoot your mouth off.I skimmed it, here's what I gathered.
Walls of text, details that are completely irrelevant to the story and nobody gives a fuck about, how dare they pull someone over for drinking and driving when they've been drinking and driving, walls of text, lawyers suck and cost too much but still got him off the hook so he really deserves a BJ and an eight ball, ignoring questions until repeated several times, blew a 0.20.
Duck, you failed your family who depended on you to be the designated driver to keep them safe while they had a good time with adult beverages. That's the bottom line. DD doesn't mean to try and stay below the legal limit, it means to stay clean fucking sober and enjoy some tea and Gatorade while everyone else beers it up. It was your one fucking job, and you failed miserably at it.
Grow the fuck up.
I'll say this though- I hope that neither you or anyone close to you runs into this type of situation. Yes- absolutely I had two adult beverages. No lying, no dancing around, no shenanigans. And to quickly correct you, it was alleged that I blew OVER a 0.20 although it was never "official" in the police report or even stated to me until many months afterwards during a... preliminary hearing maybe(?).
I respect your opinion but also respectfully disagree. I didn't "fail my family" my family was literally in the passenger seat next to me with a broken leg. I worked for Uncle Sam and had drinking & driving hammered into my head at levels most couldn't comprehend to the point where they'd stick a car out by the gates involved in a fatal wreck.
We might have to agree to disagree here but (in my opinion at least) your synopsis and admitted 'skimming' is inaccurate and likely brings some biases you personally have (and that's not meant as a personal insult either as we ALL have biases) that maybe you weren't aware of. Truth be told- I likely would have had the same reaction you did were it not for personal experience.
"We" don't think our legal system works this way because after all "we" don't participate in it as law abiding citizens- until we do.