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SuckitTrebek

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Alright gents. Digging deep into the experience of others here.

Just had the fiance get followed around by a creep in target while shopping by herself.
I want to get her a good purse knife.

Something for small hands.
smaller blade. Around 3-4 inches max.
Easy to deploy with one hand.
don't give a shit about color or serrations.

Any suggestions?

Shit always goes down when I'm not around with a .45. But that's how creepy fuckers work.
 
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My first suggestion is not keep a knife or pistol in their purse. Someone grabs the purse, then they have your weapon. Wear it on your body.

My favorite "get off me" knife has been the Spartan Blades CQB tool. Very low profile, extremely sharp. And with your finger through the ring you can't drop it or have it taken away from you.

You can even open your hand to operate a pistol or other items and it stay in your hand. Can be tied or laced into a belt easily and even use as a neck knife upside down.


Spartan Blades
 
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sorry bro. not a good suggestion. We are talking about about a real girly girl here. Not a warrior. Not you or me.

It has to be in the purse because 99% of the time she's wearing a dress. I understand the concept of keeping weapons on your person. Not an option here.
I'm not new to self defense. Just thinking someone here has had to provide for the same thing.

I'm talking simple and small here.

Something that if a dude sees it it's enough that he doesn't want to get stuck with it.
 
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She might want to carry some pepper spray as well.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: YourMotherTrebek</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Alright gents. Digging deep into the experience of others here.

Just had the fiance get followed around by a creep in target while shopping by herself.
I want to get her a good purse knife.

Something for small hands.
smaller blade. Around 3-4 inches max.
Easy to deploy with one hand.
don't give a shit about color or serrations.

Any suggestions?

Shit always goes down when I'm not around with a .45. But that's how creepy fuckers work. </div></div>

Is there a reason why she legally can't carry a gun? Keep in mind, in Texas all auto-opening switchblades are illegal (BTW, Microtec makes some sweet one's readily available at most gun shows), and IMHO its a whole lot harder to learned how to master the use of an edged-weapon in stress situations than a firearm (not to mention less "learning" opportunities/classes). There are some "assisted" folders that she may be able to legally carry - but is she interested in investing the training? I'd hate to be in the position of brandishing a knife against someone who is either carrying firearms, or even a knife and not really knowing advanced techniques on how to use one. If she can't legally carry, consider the OC spray & loud-ass whistle route instead, and maybe sign her up for some basic self-defense class?
 
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One thing to keep in mind about pepper spray, it takes a little while to take affect. It SUCKS royally when it does take affect but there can be significant delay in results. I'm not saying it's not an option just something to keep in mind and let her know if she carries it. This also is not meant to turn into a debate about which is better, just a little friendly information.
 
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I don't know what your budget/state laws dictate, but the Benchmite auto, the Daytona auto, the Ladyhawk auto, MKII auto and the Keating auto are all smaller, one hand openers that can be opened quickly with one hand and would immediately convey the message to "back off".

Kershaw also makes traditional liner-lock knives w/ a quick assist opening function that allow for one handed deployment and are considerably cheaper.

By no means am I trying to hijack your thread, but I've got a bunch of knives (including every one I've mentioned) for sale <span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="color: #666600">HERE</span></span> in the for sale section. Scroll through the whole thread to see'm all.

My wife prefers to carry an auto (Benchmite on her keychain, MOD in the bag with her CCW), I carry a quick assist for my EDC for all the reasons you already stated - I wear pants, carry a gun, etc..
 
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Torn between a knife and a pistol

Kershaw in the ZT series

And pistol is a whole different discussion

As with all this. Training is all the difference.

If she is going to have anything it all comes down to a mindset.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dtask</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and would immediately convey the message to "back off".

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You think brandishing a knife will always give the message "back off"? When its 3 guys to one woman?

Point about OC well taken, not to mention it can have virtually no affect on someone on meth, and knives do have some utility esp. as a back-up (not to mention I find use for my "utility knife" all the time). I'm not saying they are worthless, I just worry about them being used against a non-trained individual and they really do require an investment in training to not do more harm than good. And to the OP - make sure she knows how to get out of the inside of a locked trunk too...
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Chiller</div><div class="ubbcode-body">As with all this. Training is all the difference.

If she is going to have anything it all comes down to a mindset.</div></div>

^^^^

And this is the key here. A knife in a purse may be more of a danger to her than to any perp unless she is skilled in its use and has the mindset to use it.

Using a knife is a very, very high-end combat skill. Knife fighting is nasty, bloody, close-in and everyone gets cut. Is she prepared for that? Is she even going to be able to find it in a purse, get it out, open it and brandish or 'use it' under stress? Is she going to have the ability to back up a display of a knife with enough of a command presence or intimidation factor to back off a perp? Is she prepared to sink it into someone?

Running-away lessons... along with punching, clawing, kicking, biting, screaming, swinging keys and otherwise "making yourself a hard target" lessons may be a whole lot more productive than picking a purse knife. Best initial strategy may be to get some 'street survival' and situational awareness training that will help navigate away from any kind of situation where a knife may be necessary.

Don't get me wrong, I am all for lawfully carrying anything and everything that will make one safer. An armed society is a polite society. But w.out training, preparation and mindset, especially when it comes to knives, a person may be more of a hazard to themselves than to a predator.

Just my 2 percent of a dollar.

Cheers,

Sirhr
 
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http://www.crkt.com/Folts-Minimalist-Neck-Knife-Razor-Sharp-Edge

This is a great knife for women. First it is a no brainer fixed blade so you take out the training aspect of learning how to open it. Second, it has a small handle and prominent hilt to avoid a weak grip from slipping past the hilt and onto the blade. Third it is small enough to fit in most purses and tends to blend in and not scream tactical, especially if you cut the 550 lanyard off of it.

Edit to add:
It is labeled as a "neck knife". I have several female students who simply slip this into one of the small vertical pockets in their purse. Another ties the sheath to a draw string on the inside of her jacket pocket so she simply grabs it and draws.
 
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Situational awareness above all
Having an out.....best fight is the one you don't fight
If you HAVE to fight. Fight to get out.
If you can't get out.....fight to stop the threat (I am not a lawyer and this is not legal advise). That being said know the laws in your AO

I was afraid for my life
I stopped the threat (you determine when the threat is stopped)
And
TRAIN

The old rule of thumbing was told is if you fire your pistol in self defense be prepared to spend everything you own.

Remember Castle laws and self defense a side you can still be sued civil.
 
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There's a lot of good suggestions here, especially a few from Chiller. Go back and re-read his posts.

But, I may be missing something, but is your Lady actually wanting to do this (all of this) or are YOU wanting her to?

Point being, she could be walking around with a rocket-launcher, and it still won't be worth a hill-of-beans if she isn't both TRAINED and WILLING to actually use it. I ask all this, because you described her as a 'girly-girl' and whatnot.

The last thing you want, is for ANY weapon that you give her/she has, to be used against her. THAT is tantamount to devastation.

Both of you gotta look hard, deep, and serious about two things.
A) What dangers are out there to contend with, and
B) To what extent do you/she actually want to do the contending?

This because there are always the Consequences of both of the above.

In other words,,,, one thing that may/should be thought about and explored is a change in wardrobe. Or shopping habits. Or expectation of personal security. etc.

Ya'll's got some questions to be answering.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: YourMotherTrebek</div><div class="ubbcode-body">



Something that if a dude sees it it's enough that he doesn't want to get stuck with it. </div></div>


If I am reading this wrong then I am sorry. That being said, this is like the idea of “racking my 870 will scare the guy off” that we all hear all the time. If someone is willing to hurt you it would be prudent to believe that a purse knife, pistol, my AR, or my 870 will not spook them off. Brandishing the tool (the weapon is between the person’s ears) without the training or the willingness to close the deal could take a bad situation and make it worse.

If it has escalated to that point, it is not a game. It is game on.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Chiller</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: YourMotherTrebek</div><div class="ubbcode-body">



Something that if a dude sees it it's enougbh that he doesn't want to get stuck with it. </div></div>


If I am reading this wrong then I am sorry. That being said, this is like the idea of “racking my 870 will scare the guy off” that we all hear all the time. If someone is willing to hurt you it would be prudent to believe that a purse knife, pistol, my AR, or my 870 will not spook them off. Brandishing the tool (the weapon is between the person’s ears) without the training or the willingness to close the deal could take a bad situation and make it worse.

If it has escalated to that point, it is not a game. It is game on.
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What he said.
First you gotta know what you are getting into, then train, pick the right tool for the job and finally dress around it.
If you both change your minds about the "intimidation factor" take a look at the Cold Steel Double Agent II. It's imposible to take away from your hand and she can still grab and punch without loosing it.
 
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Shit always goes down when I'm not around [/quote] take some of your time and follow at some distance your bait...pardon,fiancée_leave the gun at home_enjoy the hunt_(+1 w.Chiller and Sihrmech.for all other matters above)_
 
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Get her a taser (as in the taser international one that shoots the prongs not the little dollar store stun gun). The reality is without a lot of very serious training and even then chances are she may kill the guy...eventually but not before he is able to cause serious harm. Ideally living in texas convincing her to carry a gun would be ideal but if not get her the taser it will do the job and keep her safe.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: UKDslayer</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dtask</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and would immediately convey the message to "back off".

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You think brandishing a knife will always give the message "back off"? When its 3 guys to one woman?

Point about OC well taken, not to mention it can have virtually no affect on someone on meth, and knives do have some utility esp. as a back-up (not to mention I find use for my "utility knife" all the time). I'm not saying they are worthless, I just worry about them being used against a non-trained individual and they really do require an investment in training to not do more harm than good. And to the OP - make sure she knows how to get out of the inside of a locked trunk too...
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Yeah I do think that brandishing the benchmade auto I just purchased is going to get the point across to anyone wanting to fuck with her. I know I don't want to get cut myself for one.

OC, or a gun negative.

Putting a gun in her purse is opening a whole new world of training needed as well as responsibility level at all times.

I"m not saying a knife doesn't do this, it does, just at a more basic level.

Thanks for the advice from those above. Here is my choice

http://www.benchmade.com/products/14850

And I got it for $166.00 shipped.
Damn good price for a benchmade auto. And simple enough to use in a pressure situation while at the same time making it pretty hard to injury yourself or someone else inadvertently. pepper spray and a gun lost out big time on that fact alone.

And yes I do believe that some basic skills in learning how to deal with and get away from harm are usually more effective. I'm teaching her those now. The knife is a last resort.

You need to understand the person before suggesting the type of defense they use.
In this case I understand who this person is and the best route to take for them.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: UKDslayer</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dtask</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and would immediately convey the message to "back off".

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You think brandishing a knife will always give the message "back off"? When its 3 guys to one woman?

Point about OC well taken, not to mention it can have virtually no affect on someone on meth, and knives do have some utility esp. as a back-up (not to mention I find use for my "utility knife" all the time). I'm not saying they are worthless, I just worry about them being used against a non-trained individual and they really do require an investment in training to not do more harm than good. And to the OP - make sure she knows how to get out of the inside of a locked trunk too...
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I'm actually surprised by your response - but to answer, no, I don't think that simply brandishing a knife would elicit that response. But I gave specific examples of knives that I think would elicit that response.

Look, I get the regular conventional whole, "girls shouldn't have knives on them as they might be wrestled from, and then used on them" mentality - it's old shit. Been around forever mentality.

Frankly, I choose to give my wife the freedom to choose what she feels makes her feel safe and secure - if that is a knife and a gun, or a knife alone, a flashlight or a bottle of pepper spray, that decision is hers.

I take the time to impart what I think I know to her and implore her to look into what else she can learn about what she chooses to defend herself with - beyond that, I don't know what I could do.

Having a knife has no response on someone on meth? I would suggest that someone on meth cannot continue living among us with a major artery laceration.

Assuming that someone who carries a knife would NOT carry it so un-trained IS the very point of discussion here is it not?

We here on this site assume that a level of practical training would be in order before implementing a tool of defense. Is that not a standard operating procedure (or logic) or have I made a mistake in my assumption of the members here?
 
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I carry a Kobalt folding, locking utility knife with a serrated blade and a replaceable utility knife blade. It's lightweight, all metal, and flat.

Both blades have a protruding pin which can be used with the thumb to start the blade open far enough to flick it the rest of the way open.

I would open both ends, and orient the blades with the boxcutter/utility up and the serrated blade down, edges outward. With practice, the blades open easier, and the opening technique becomes second nature.

I was taught to use the knife as an enhancement to boxing moves; to slash on passing, rather than to stab. The serrated blade can also be used to stab on the return swing. By combining the knife with boxing technique, a familiar set of skills can be enhanced with the knife's added capabiolity, and the entire process becomes more natural.

I carry my knife in pocket, others have belt clips that can allow the handle to be stowed inside a waistband, with the clip mostly concealed under a broad belt. These Hobalt folders also come with a fabric belt pouch, and a clip which allows it to be hooked onto a belt loop. The pouch can even be worn under the dress on a neck lanyard/loop. It comes with 10 replacement utility blades in a purse-safe dispenser.

Greg
 
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My wife carries a partially serrated Benchmade Griptilian (sp?).
Of course its pink, but she learned with her out all day running errands and picking up our kids that she needed it for her protection. She can open it quickly with her thumb and she knows the basics to protect herself. She also carries Kimber Life Alert gel mace.

Benchmade also makes some 3-4" blade knives that are non folding, I would consider one of those as well. Spartan is turning out some badass little fixed blades as well.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dtask</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: UKDslayer</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dtask</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and would immediately convey the message to "back off".

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You think brandishing a knife will always give the message "back off"? When its 3 guys to one woman?

Point about OC well taken, not to mention it can have virtually no affect on someone on meth, and knives do have some utility esp. as a back-up (not to mention I find use for my "utility knife" all the time). I'm not saying they are worthless, I just worry about them being used against a non-trained individual and they really do require an investment in training to not do more harm than good. And to the OP - make sure she knows how to get out of the inside of a locked trunk too...
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I'm actually surprised by your response - but to answer, no, I don't think that simply brandishing a knife would elicit that response. But I gave specific examples of knives that I think would elicit that response.

Look, I get the regular conventional whole, "girls shouldn't have knives on them as they might be wrestled from, and then used on them" mentality - it's old shit. Been around forever mentality.

Frankly, I choose to give my wife the freedom to choose what she feels makes her feel safe and secure - if that is a knife and a gun, or a knife alone, a flashlight or a bottle of pepper spray, that decision is hers.

I take the time to impart what I think I know to her and implore her to look into what else she can learn about what she chooses to defend herself with - beyond that, I don't know what I could do.

Having a knife has no response on someone on meth? I would suggest that someone on meth cannot continue living among us with a major artery laceration.

Assuming that someone who carries a knife would NOT carry it so un-trained IS the very point of discussion here is it not?

We here on this site assume that a level of practical training would be in order before implementing a tool of defense. Is that not a standard operating procedure (or logic) or have I made a mistake in my assumption of the members here? </div></div>

No. The point of this discussion was I asked for suggestions for a quick and easy to deploy knife.

I went with an out the front automatic benchmade. It will be a nice addition to a louis vuitton purse. In a situation where she is flustered and uncomfortable at the very least I'm confident that she can deploy it. Even with little to no training. And yes I think someone will think twice upon very site of it. As we all know soft targets are often victims. Putting a knife in her hand may not be enough, but it's a start.

I understand the value of of training and she is starting from the bottom.
My purpose of this post was not to get opinions on guns, training or oc. But thanks anyhow guys. I like seeing the different opinions out there.
 
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YourMotherTrebek,

You seem pretty set on what is the right choice here so I just have a couple of things to add.

Number 1 is that I would go back and read the posts from "Chiller", "UKDslayer", and "Sirhrmechanic" as they get it in my opinion and made some good comments. However, as you rightly pointed out, it is your situation and you know the person etc. so you can do whatever you feel is best.

Moving forward to what you have gone with, I would double check the laws but I am pretty sure (not 100% because I am not giving legal advice...but otherwise 100% sure) that autos are illegal in Texas. Whether or not you care about that is not my business, I just wanted to point that out.

My first suggestion if dead set on a knife (both for ease of use and legality) would be a smallish fixed blade of reputable manufacture (3" blade ballpark) with either some sort of clip on the sheath, or some other means of securing it somewhere consistent purse to purse and near the top of the purse so there is no "digging around" for a knife that is "somewhere" in the purse. If you are going to stick with the auto I would say the same thing...try to locate it somewhere in the purse where it will always be in the same place and orientation, and be easy/easier to access.

As far as training etc., I would definitely start/continue with the mindset/awareness bit, and beyond that either seek professional training yourself so you can help her with basics like accessing the blade, good targets for a blade, some basic blade templates (i.e. targets and order of targets...and how that changes based on position/scenario) and "landmarking" (i.e. picking your spots ahead of time on a specific individual) , or best case get her into some training. As a caveat I am not a professional or professional trainer, just an average dude with some basic training...take that for what it is worth. If you want a suggestion for a trainer, I would look at the Sayoc guys or Southnarc/shivworks, but that is not to say there are not other good trainers out there.

You may already be on top of this so please don't take any of the above as insulting, it is just my attempt at being informative. I hope everything works out to ya'lls satisfaction and hope this was helpful in some degree.

P.S. If she does not have a flashlight then that is a good thing to have "in the purse" as well. One of those micro swiss army knives is great too for more mundane tasks...and those definitely come in girly colors ha!

ETA: For specific knives, the best (in my opinion...just google search for them) is the Bloodshark if you can find one and it isn't too pricey. A less expensive (and made in Texas) option is the "Hidden Key" by Joe Wilson. With both the biggest deal is the awesome low profile sheath with a clip allowing it to be mounted almost anywhere...getting a trainer is a great deal too.

Also, in extremis, or if the knife is a tough sell, one of the smaller screwdrivers with a pocket clip setup is a good innocuous looking setup for getting stabby...absolute last resort for low pro but useable would be a pen with a metal barrel like a Zebra. Keep in mind those two options are stabbers only (the 'ol "sewing machine" attack) and good targets are the face/neck as part of a "get the hell off me" then run system...but you can carry them almost anywhere, they are cheap, and they are pretty effective within their limited/specialized range of use.

 
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A small fixed blade is the quickest to deploy. There are ways to screw up the deployment of an OTF automatic, along with the legality issues mentioned.
 
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Keep in mind those two options are stabbers only (the 'ol "sewing machine" attack) and good targets are the face/neck as part of a "get the hell off me" then run system...but you can carry them almost anywhere, they are cheap, and they are pretty effective within their limited/specialized range of use.
[/quote] please,add the classic pair of pointed scissors,sealed in their shop paper,ready to use notwithstanding that,anyway_good luck
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: txgw</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Just keep in mind that is a switchblade and carrying one in Texas is a Class A Misdemeanor (up to $4000 fine and/or 1 year in jail).
TX Penal Code 46.05(a)(5).

http://www.statutes.legis.state.tx.us/Docs/PE/htm/PE.46.htm </div></div>

I'm quite versed in the law, thank you. Learned that in the academy.
Once again, wasn't looking for suggestions on training, the law, mindset, guns, or oc.
As you might tell from the signature line I have a bit of experience on all of the above.

Thanks gents. This is over, already made the purchase.
 
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Got the knife I ordered in today.

It is exactly as I intended. Easy to handle, very well made. And makes brandishing it for any use quick and easy by even the most inexperienced or flustered person. I also like the intimidation factor of the auto, out the front blade. It is also hard to unintentionally deploy the blade. The button has just the right amount of resistance.

In other words. It's probably perfect for a woman.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MP15</div><div class="ubbcode-body">How about one of these - http://www.hideawayknife.com/main.php

I have a HAK and it's an excellent backup knife.</div></div>

+1 on the HAK. They have a leash of sorts that can be clipped to the inside of a pocket or a purse to make for a more positive draw, as well as mounting options for under lapels and all sorts of interesting locations.
 
You are a "home security expert" and you felt the need to bump a 10 yr old thread to flog mall ninja shit with your first post?


Go shill your shit somewhere else

The last post before yours was in 2012 but there were some excellent laughs in this thread so I'll forgive you this time. Homeboy giving his wife an overpriced OTF as a means of self defense is hilarious, especially with the whole justification being that her vagina is too big to conceal a pistol or something like that. Then the way he defended his poor choice to all you pleebs as though he didn't post asking for your opinions :ROFLMAO:
 
The last post before yours was in 2012 but there were some excellent laughs in this thread so I'll forgive you this time. Homeboy giving his wife an overpriced OTF as a means of self defense is hilarious, especially with the whole justification being that her vagina is too big to conceal a pistol or something like that. Then the way he defended his poor choice to all you pleebs as though he didn't post asking for your opinions :ROFLMAO:
nah, the dude i quoted bumped the thread from 2012 to shill some shit....looks like his account was deleted making me look like the asshole haha
 
If she is always in a dress we need pictures to give better suggestions on appropriate weapons to go with outfit. Or get a girl with stabby eyes?
 
I have given my wife several, but what she always caries is a Kershaw Leek. It is fast open, but most importantly a nice flat profile.

She even clips it in her bra when she goes running.
 
If you can find an original or Gerber made, I like the Blackie Collins Buddy System. Have one on my non work keys.

I have no connection to this auction. Other than using it to show the knife.
 
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My first suggestion is not keep a knife or pistol in their purse. Someone grabs the purse, then they have your weapon. Wear it on your body.

My favorite "get off me" knife has been the Spartan Blades CQB tool. Very low profile, extremely sharp. And with your finger through the ring you can't drop it or have it taken away from you.

You can even open your hand to operate a pistol or other items and it stay in your hand. Can be tied or laced into a belt easily and even use as a neck knife upside down.


Spartan Blades
I have one molle attatched to the bottom of a HPG kit bag and I like it a lot. It is easily adapted to purse or on body carry and has a crazy sharp point with great retention.
 
Here are a couple o' Case knives that I'd recommend.
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Chiller</div><div class="ubbcode-body">As with all this. Training is all the difference.

If she is going to have anything it all comes down to a mindset.</div></div>

^^^^

And this is the key here. A knife in a purse may be more of a danger to her than to any perp unless she is skilled in its use and has the mindset to use it.

Using a knife is a very, very high-end combat skill. Knife fighting is nasty, bloody, close-in and everyone gets cut. Is she prepared for that? Is she even going to be able to find it in a purse, get it out, open it and brandish or 'use it' under stress? Is she going to have the ability to back up a display of a knife with enough of a command presence or intimidation factor to back off a perp? Is she prepared to sink it into someone?

Running-away lessons... along with punching, clawing, kicking, biting, screaming, swinging keys and otherwise "making yourself a hard target" lessons may be a whole lot more productive than picking a purse knife. Best initial strategy may be to get some 'street survival' and situational awareness training that will help navigate away from any kind of situation where a knife may be necessary.

Don't get me wrong, I am all for lawfully carrying anything and everything that will make one safer. An armed society is a polite society. But w.out training, preparation and mindset, especially when it comes to knives, a person may be more of a hazard to themselves than to a predator.

Just my 2 percent of a dollar.

Cheers,

Sirhr
This was solid advice 9 years ago, and it's solid advice now.
 
Whenever my wife goes out, she has always carried our ten children with her. You want to talk about a visual deterrent? No knife can match that. 😁
 
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We are talking about about a real girly girl here. Not a warrior. Not you or me.

This is a solid dead threat revival just for this internet gold right here. Expecting anyone but a true savage to be able to use a knife as a weapon is hilarious. The sight of a knife isn’t fear inducing either when the person holding it is shaking and pissing their pants.
 
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I believe that if one's defensive weapon is a knife, then one should have a basic competencies in self-defense with the knife. Many people who use a blade for defense end up cutting themselves. At minimum watch and practice (with a dummy knife) some good Youtube vids of kali/escrima self-defense techniques. Even better, would be to find a good, qualified, local instructor. The same basic techniques work with the hand, stick and knife. You don't have to be an expert practitioner to be good enough for self-defense against the typical thug attacker, but you sure don't want to cut yourself, either.