Can you feel the difference in neck tension when you seat the bullet? I’m having problems with consistency on my seating depths and general consensus is that my neck tension is to blame. When I seat my bullets some feel much stiffer than others.
Yeah, that's exactly what you want to try and fix: you want the seating feel to be as similar as possible case to case when seating bullets. That usually will mean your neck tension is consistent too.
Before switching to using the mandrel following sizing, I'd say when seating bullets on 100 rounds: maybe a good chunk of them would feel about the same, but not all of them, as a pretty good chunk would still be kind of all over the place in feel, with some being easier and some feeling stiffer...
So before getting the mandrel I did a sort of "mini-experiment" a few times where I'd place all the rounds where seating felt good and about the same as each other into one box, and then the other ones that weren't really as consistent feeling into another box...
It doesn't take much shooting at all to quickly figure out that the ones that all felt good and "about the same" as far as bullet seating feel will group better, and be way better than the other ones that didn't feel consistent to one and other.
You can literally see it in your groups: average mean radius, ES, and average-to-center will all be smaller than the groups shot with the rounds that felt inconsistent when seating bullets, and the impacts will stay nice and tidy as far as printing vertically with the consistent ones as long as your powder charges are consistent too. You'll see it at your chrono too, as your SD numbers will be looking good and be lower with the consistent ones vs the less consistent ones.
Now, using the mandrel after sizing, when seating bullets on 100 rounds, ~90 of them will feel about the same as the next, and the maybe ~10 or so that might feel just a little off from the others are so close in feel that it's more or less a non-issue and almost not worth mentioning...
***Since it hasn't been said, I'll say it: If you're neck sizing only, or using some wonky combination of neck-size and body-size dies separately, or a Lee collet die for anything, you're doing it wrong... stop that shit lol. If you're not already FL sizing and bumping the shoulder back .002 every time, a mandrel probably won't do shit until you get that together.