Re: .223 load data
Many manuals recommend a magnum primer to properly, fully and reliably ignite ball powders. Standard primers work OK for ball powders when it's warm out, but they also reduce pressures, so a primer switch may explain the load discrepancy.
The max load in your rifle will depend on a lot of things, not the least of which are chamber dimesions and case capacity. Pay attention to what brass they were using when they made the load recommendation. It matters because of the effect of case capacity on pressure.
Work up in .5 grain increments. Look for pressure signs. If no pressure signs develop - assuming an AR rifle here - there will come a time when you blow a primer (few AR's give you reliable warning before that). Then back off a full grain and see if you blow another primer. If not, then maybe you can safely get .5 grain more, and maybe not.
Blowing primers is NOT a safe way to do load development in an AR. That's not what I am saying. Your load should never blow primers, even with hot ammo under the sun.
And keep the ball powders out of the sun, especially when pushing heavy bullets, because your load can become very, very unsafe under those conditions.