Re: 3 blown primers out of 100??
Too hot. The gun is telling you something that you must not ignore.
As a fairly experienced handloader, probably the best experience I can pass on to you is that we have all probably done our experimenting with hotter loads, and the lesson is simple. Nothing comes without a price, and the price for hot loading is most definitely too high to support any imagined benefit.
The bill always comes due.
What those who end up paying it find out the hard way is that once the loads have been shot, the clock starts ticking. When it rings may be with a hotter load, may be with a perfectly safe load. The problem is that the underlying metal fatigue damage has already been done, and that each overmax shot's worth of demage cuts another slice off the rifle's life expectancy.
Gun design specs generally include a safety margin that anticipates far, far more usage than any particular rifle is likely to experience. Unless you've really been twisting the dragon's tail with some considerable frequency, the odds favor a successful avoidance of any serious shortening of the rifle's reasonable life expectancy. Each rifle has a predictable life expectancy, and that expectancy is predicated upon using loads that meet safe pressure limits. Exceed those limits and all bets are off.
The time to stop hotloading is now. There is no safe margin for such things.
Greg