My "genius" kid got her MOTHER (my ex) to let her drop out of HS (with only 5 months to go to grad
) and runs off with her boyfriend and his parents to Lyons MI. Did not tell me crap. I'm a good dad, pay child support like clock work, offered the kid everything under the sun I could afford, and Tammy (the new Mrs. Throneburg) has been a stellar stepmother. What is even more puzzeling is that the ex never told me either. I got this email (yes this is the exact email, spelling and all):
"This is hard to say and i know ull hate me after this but i love you.....i couldnt tell u until now because i didnt know how to tell u...im not in south carolina anymore...i want to follow my dream...i want to see the world...i know that im young but i am 17 and theres nothing u or mom could do about it...i am in michigan....my fone doesnt work up here so i couldnt call u...its snowing up here....i will be going to college up here in the fall at the university....im here with my boyfriend...hes been a good friend for 7 years and we have gotten together and i have fallen in love with him...i know u think that im too young to know what love is but i do...and its my life to make mistakes and chances and go on adventures...i have to choose which way i wanna go in life so this is my choice...My boyfriend has proposed to me and i said yes...its wondeful up here and im happy with the choice that i have made. i hate that my phone doesnt work up here but i still have a computer and im going to try to get a new fone as soon as i can
i love you
caitlin"
My mother in law was standing in the livingroom when it came in to the crackberry and I started yelling WTF!, WTF!, WTF! I think I frightened her dearly.
Well my kid never replied to my phone calls or emails and finally my dad (yes the guy in the photo) wrote her this:
<span style="font-weight: bold"> "Well……..first thing you need to do is to return to the 9th grade so that you can learn English Grammar and how to write sentences and paragraphs.
Second you need to graduate from high school before a university will accept you. Somewhere in this process you will need to work.
We love you and will miss you. I hate you chose this path because it is a very difficult one. If you need to get home we will put a jar in the Petrol Express for you to raise money for the bus ticket.
It’s truly amazing."
</span>
I thought that was funny as crap!!
Well Tammy wrote her trying to get her to think about things and the little smart ass boyfring wrote back cussing us and all kinds of crap, well that just sent my wife over the edge. If you were to know her, she is 5'2" tall, 125lbs of "I will beat the shit out of you because I run more miles a week than a Navy Seal" woman. She don't play.
Longer story shortened up a bit, I finally got tried of getting nothing and more nothing out of my sack o' shit ex, that I called the PD up there and filed a missing persons report and they used a little bit of "tactics" to get the ex to tell them something and they got in touch with her and told her she had to call. She tried to tell them she would send me an email and the detective said "NO" you call....so I am waiting on a call from her now. I found out where she was, because, like all teenagers, they can't keep crap to themselves and she posted her location on her Facebook page.....dummy!
Now, to STOP the child support, cause "sack o' shit ex" is not taking my money while my kid is off in never never land living with her boyfriend........
Oh yea, as far as the "I'm going to see the world" stuff....I have her passport locked in the safe
and she has no drivers license and 1000.00 to her name which is most likely much less now because her lilly white butt has no clothes for the weather up there.........brilliant!

"This is hard to say and i know ull hate me after this but i love you.....i couldnt tell u until now because i didnt know how to tell u...im not in south carolina anymore...i want to follow my dream...i want to see the world...i know that im young but i am 17 and theres nothing u or mom could do about it...i am in michigan....my fone doesnt work up here so i couldnt call u...its snowing up here....i will be going to college up here in the fall at the university....im here with my boyfriend...hes been a good friend for 7 years and we have gotten together and i have fallen in love with him...i know u think that im too young to know what love is but i do...and its my life to make mistakes and chances and go on adventures...i have to choose which way i wanna go in life so this is my choice...My boyfriend has proposed to me and i said yes...its wondeful up here and im happy with the choice that i have made. i hate that my phone doesnt work up here but i still have a computer and im going to try to get a new fone as soon as i can
i love you
caitlin"
My mother in law was standing in the livingroom when it came in to the crackberry and I started yelling WTF!, WTF!, WTF! I think I frightened her dearly.
Well my kid never replied to my phone calls or emails and finally my dad (yes the guy in the photo) wrote her this:
<span style="font-weight: bold"> "Well……..first thing you need to do is to return to the 9th grade so that you can learn English Grammar and how to write sentences and paragraphs.
Second you need to graduate from high school before a university will accept you. Somewhere in this process you will need to work.
We love you and will miss you. I hate you chose this path because it is a very difficult one. If you need to get home we will put a jar in the Petrol Express for you to raise money for the bus ticket.
It’s truly amazing."
</span>
I thought that was funny as crap!!
Well Tammy wrote her trying to get her to think about things and the little smart ass boyfring wrote back cussing us and all kinds of crap, well that just sent my wife over the edge. If you were to know her, she is 5'2" tall, 125lbs of "I will beat the shit out of you because I run more miles a week than a Navy Seal" woman. She don't play.
Longer story shortened up a bit, I finally got tried of getting nothing and more nothing out of my sack o' shit ex, that I called the PD up there and filed a missing persons report and they used a little bit of "tactics" to get the ex to tell them something and they got in touch with her and told her she had to call. She tried to tell them she would send me an email and the detective said "NO" you call....so I am waiting on a call from her now. I found out where she was, because, like all teenagers, they can't keep crap to themselves and she posted her location on her Facebook page.....dummy!
Now, to STOP the child support, cause "sack o' shit ex" is not taking my money while my kid is off in never never land living with her boyfriend........
Oh yea, as far as the "I'm going to see the world" stuff....I have her passport locked in the safe
