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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: The Mechanic</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> here as the county actually advertises come here for a welfare check
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How could California be bankrupt with policy's like that?
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: StrikeHold</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I wouldn't worry about it. She is probably dead by now. </div></div>

Cocksucking piece of shit. I hope you fucking die.

WDN, keep us posted. Im curious as to what you have in the works. I hope it all works out for the best.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Apache</div><div class="ubbcode-body">War-Dog,

While I do not know your daughter, I know of several of my friends who did the exact same thing. My girlfriends best friend dropped out her senior year, and wanted to "make it big!" Which was fully supported by her nutjob mother. Needless to say, it hasn't quite worked out that way. We know she's capable of doing great things, but she lacks the motivation to try and believe in herself.

On behalf of the younger population, I am sorry. We say things and act in ways that are deplorable in retrospect. There were things I said to my parents when I was 16 that I would NEVER think of saying now, knowing what they did was for a reason. I had a stint where I had the typical rebellious phase. I snuck out a couple times, got caught by my parents, and NEVER did it again. Point being, I knew that when my parents were worried, I knew it was because they loved me and just wanted me to be safe.

I'm guilty of the "texting speak," too...while I'm actually texting, not in normal emails or any other form of writing. I know how to distinguish the two and when to write in them accordingly.

Your daughter will grow up and realize what she's done, and while it may take a while, I can guarantee you there will be a time where she regrets her decisions and wishes she could come home. As said before, always make sure she knows your doors are open.


And if you really want to pursue a statuitory rape charge, SC may have a lowered age of consent, but what about the state she is in now? By crossing state lines she made herself susceptible to the laws and regulations of that state.

Just believe that it will get better. Soon enough we realize the error in our ways. I'm sorry this is happening to you, but realize it could be much much worse.



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Very well said.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: StrikeHold</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I wouldn't worry about it. She is probably dead by now. </div></div>

This is the most chickenshit thing I have heard on the Hide. I don't know what you were thinking when you typed it. Maybe you thought you were being cute or tough or who knows what. You are a twisted fuck and should have your face messed up. I know JasonK is watching this thread. My vote...permanently ban this worthless piece of shit. He can say nothing from this point forward which needs to be read. He is a mean-spirited asshole who doesn't belong on this site.

MAKE HIM GO AWAY!!!!
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DaveV</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: StrikeHold</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I wouldn't worry about it. She is probably dead by now. </div></div>

This is the most chickenshit thing I have heard on the Hide. I don't know what you were thinking when you typed it. Maybe you thought you were being cute or tough or who knows what. You are a twisted fuck and should have your face messed up. I know JasonK is watching this thread. My vote...permanently ban this worthless piece of shit. He can say nothing from this point forward which needs to be read. He is a mean-spirited asshole who doesn't belong on this site.

MAKE HIM GO AWAY!!!! </div></div>

well said my good man, well said

war dog, i have no kids man, but i feel for you. i hope it comes out well. i hope she wakes up, but you know how young love can be. keep a light on for her and a door unlocked if not open (metaphorically of course) and let her know she has a safe place to return too. take some time and talk with shankster. he may or may not be able to use some of his awesome internet ninja skills to help you with a location. im in kansas and if you let me know well in advance i will scout some construction site for a comfortable roomy concrete form for your new ex son in law to look at. you know in case he has never seen such a thing. at the very least i think you and i are of the same mind on one thing. when you see that bastard, BEAT HIS ASS SEVERELY for having the nerv to take your daughter AND THEN cuss you out on the phone like a little bitch ass pussy. excuse my language, but that REALLY pissed me off. WTF was he thinking, if he is gonna marry her, she will be turning 18 and you do plan on seeing her no matter the outcome of this. he has to realize that he will eventually have to face you if he has the intention of actually marrying your daughter... unless he is an idiot, oh wait, i forgot. so please punch him in the sack for me. several times. good luck brother
 
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I sent StrikeHold a PM yesterday about Karma. But the more I think about it Karma usually takes to long. Could one of the Mods PLEASE remove this unbeliveable DICK off of this board. I don't often get mad about stuff put on this forum and have pretty thick skin from 10 years in law enforcement, but I can tell you that had a comment been made like that in a room full of the people in this forum, it would have looked like the running of the bulls to see who would have gotten to him/her first. This guy/girl is the most insensitive asshole I have seen in a while.
War Dog I hope it works out for you and if you find out that they might be in Ms at any time shoot me a PM and I'll try to make a new friend.
Patrick
 
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War-Dog-Nemo. I'm sorry for what you are going through. Teenagers, daughters in particular, don't exactly think straight for the most part. You've been given a lot of advice. The only thing I'd add is 'don't do something that will screw up your life' in dealing with this.
Best wishes.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: StrikeHold</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I wouldn't worry about it. She is probably dead by now.</div></div>

Just so I don't get anymore PMs, I'll throw out my two cents about banning StrikeHold for life.

StrikeHold is obviously a fool who most likely has no kids, if he does then I fear for them and their future. I truly hope he was trying to make some sort of dry humor joke, but it obviously was not taken that way by anyone else with half a heart for what War-Dog-Nemo must be going through.

As for the ban, I won't be the mod to do it. It's the internet and the Land of the Free, people are allowed to be idiots and make comments others don't appreciate. The mods are not here to regulate and judge what's appropriate, offensive to some, etc. I do not want to get the ball rolling where every comment that someone thinks is mean spirited gets forwarded to a mod, I'd get even less work done then I do now.

As for those who want him banned you are welcome to put him on ignore as I have and/or send him a pm with your thoughts and feelings. At the very least I do think he owes WDN an apology, but that will be up to him I guess.

WDN, I do truly feel for your situation, as a dad of two young kids I can only imagine the pain in your heart. I wish you the best and you and your daughter have my prayers.

Jason
 
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JasonK, you're doing a stand-up thing. I respect you for that intent.

While it seems that this "strikehold" individual has denigrated himself to the likeness of a certain baptist group, they too have the 'freedom' to speak.

We don't have to like it, listen to it, or even acknowledge it. But we sure now what to think of it.

Ignore button set........FIRE!
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Spazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
Y shud i care how 2 spl if it dosnt make a dif n my gradz? </div></div>

Yup, that about sums it up.

My commiserations on your troubles. As the Father of a beautiful little girl, the scariest words I NEVER want to hear are;
"But I love him"

Bro you have friends here. A friend will always be happy to do you a little favour. What can I say? Accidents happen every day.

My 0.02c? Keep the door open and <span style="font-style: italic">hopefully</span> she'll come walking right through it one day saying "Daddy, I've made a terrible mistake". <span style="font-weight: bold">Then</span> you got to pick up the pieces.

My heart goes out to you. I hope you get the result you want.

Go ahead and rant Bro, we're listening.

N
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jasonk</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: StrikeHold</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I wouldn't worry about it. She is probably dead by now.</div></div>

Just so I don't get anymore PMs, I'll throw out my two cents about banning StrikeHold for life.

StrikeHold is obviously a fool who most likely has no kids, if he does then I fear for them and their future. I truly hope he was trying to make some sort of dry humor joke, but it obviously was not taken that way by anyone else with half a heart for what War-Dog-Nemo must be going through.

As for the ban, I won't be the mod to do it. It's the internet and the Land of the Free, people are allowed to be idiots and make comments others don't appreciate. The mods are not here to regulate and judge what's appropriate, offensive to some, etc. I do not want to get the ball rolling where every comment that someone thinks is mean spirited gets forwarded to a mod, I'd get even less work done then I do now.

As for those who want him banned you are welcome to put him on ignore as I have and/or send him a pm with your thoughts and feelings. At the very least I do think he owes WDN an apology, but that will be up to him I guess.

WDN, I do truly feel for your situation, as a dad of two young kids I can only imagine the pain in your heart. I wish you the best and you and your daughter have my prayers.

Jason </div></div>

I appreciate the position you are in, but as a mod, it is your job to make sure members follow the rules on this PRIVATELY owned site.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Lowlight</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
1.Exercise common sense and be considerate toward your fellow users. Diversity of opinion and intelligent civil discourse is encouraged; by the same token, <span style="font-weight: bold">Personal attacks, rudeness, flaming, baiting, insults to others, or arguments will not be tolerated</span>. Challenge others' points of view and opinions, but do so respectfully and thoughtfully. Any member who threatens anyone on the forum, via PM, instant messengers, or Email, will be subject to disciplinary actions, including but not limited to banishment from the site.</div></div>

This is not a free speech issue but, rather, a dickhead blatantly breaking the rules issue. If he would have told you or the other mods to "not worry about your daughter because she's probably dead by now," I have a hard time believing that he would continue to cruise along unchallenged.

Just my .002
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DaveV</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I appreciate the position you are in, but as a mod, it is your job to make sure members follow the rules on this PRIVATELY owned site.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Lowlight</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
1.Exercise common sense and be considerate toward your fellow users. Diversity of opinion and intelligent civil discourse is encouraged; by the same token, <span style="font-weight: bold">Personal attacks, rudeness, flaming, baiting, insults to others, or arguments will not be tolerated</span>. Challenge others' points of view and opinions, but do so respectfully and thoughtfully. Any member who threatens anyone on the forum, via PM, instant messengers, or Email, will be subject to disciplinary actions, including but not limited to banishment from the site.</div></div>

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LOL, do you know how many posts I'd have to delete a day and people I'd have to ban if I followed those rules to the extreme? I'd then have to ban everyone who responded to StrikeHold as well
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Anyway, rarely will one bout of poor judgement get you banned here, it's the repeat offenders that I'm after.
 
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This whole situation really sucks badly; it is something that no parent should have to go through. You have my best thoughts and wishes for a positive resolution to the whole affair.

We can only hope that she comes to the realization that she hasn’t made the best decision and reconnects to you.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jasonk</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DaveV</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I appreciate the position you are in, but as a mod, it is your job to make sure members follow the rules on this PRIVATELY owned site.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Lowlight</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
1.Exercise common sense and be considerate toward your fellow users. Diversity of opinion and intelligent civil discourse is encouraged; by the same token, <span style="font-weight: bold">Personal attacks, rudeness, flaming, baiting, insults to others, or arguments will not be tolerated</span>. Challenge others' points of view and opinions, but do so respectfully and thoughtfully. Any member who threatens anyone on the forum, via PM, instant messengers, or Email, will be subject to disciplinary actions, including but not limited to banishment from the site.</div></div>

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LOL, do you know how many posts I'd have to delete a day and people I'd have to ban if I followed those rules to the extreme? I'd then have to ban everyone who responded to StrikeHold as well
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Anyway, rarely will one bout of poor judgement get you banned here, it's the repeat offenders that I'm after. </div></div>

Copy that.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: StrikeHold</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yeah, that was pretty fucked up of me. I didnt really think before I posted that.

Sincere apologies to War Dog. </div></div>

It's all good, I will write it off to the fact that you were probably <span style="font-weight: bold">SMOKING CRACK</span> at the time.
 
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I think Doorkicker had it right.

Life has a brutal way of pointing out to us that we fucked up. I hope your kid figures it out before she gets pregnant.

Good luck getting through this and I'm sorry.
 
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here are my thoughts on the situation. Write your daughter an email and tell her that you think she is making a mistake and that you love her and are only concerned with her safety, there will be plenty of time to explore the world once she finished high school If you try to get the boyfriend arrested for statutory or something brash it will only backfire. She will push you away even more. I would end the letter with the fact that all it takes is a phone call and you will have her on the next plane home.
 
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(If you have any custody) You need to file a Police report, talk to the Local (SC) PD and see what will work (kidnapping, transporting minor, it could be curfew violations!). You then send it to the Local(MI PD, Lyons looks like a 2 turd farm town about 30 miles, NW of Lansing, MI. Lansing is the Capital and the State Police HQ is there, 2nd place to fax and call.Your Daughters BF's name is probably on her FaceBook page.

Be sure to document everything email, ph calls, text, etc.

Or you can play dirty!
 
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War dog: I have two daughters, If I were in your shoes, I would want to go have a face to face talk with her. Everything that Russ257 suggested is right on the money. Nothing to be gained at this point by losing your temper and kicking the boyfriends ass except getting you put in jail.
 
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Don't know how much help this will be but, a friend's idiot 17 year old kid (this is still the best term for him, your might not be), moved out because he didn't "think" he had to take any of dad's guff anymore. Only had a parttime job and "decided" to quit school so he could work full time. Thats when his mother told him that if he did she would sign the papers to put him in the "state home for boys" until he turned 18.
Only part of that that really got his attention was that his girl friend wouldn't be sleeping with him for that entire time.

Don't quote me on the correct name but I will bet there is an equivalent facility in MI for her to find herself residing in. I would be very suprised if her BF hangs around if she is in there for very long.
 
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Good Lord, I mean no harm by saying Im glad Im not alone. Mine has left home twice and found that cruel old world both times and ran back with her tail between her legs. Now I think she might understand the comfort in having a home to live in, food on the table and clean clothes. She is now going to school full time and working full time. She knows more now than she did when she left. Im sure this is a common thing in young men and women and she will get tired of it and come home. Boys at 17 dont think about tomorrow either and when it comes down to it he will fend for himself and leave her cold, she will make the phone call then. When she comes home it will be time for reinstatement of the rules. Keep the faith. She will come around to Daddys way of thinking.