Bad situation remedies

Re: Bad situation remedies

who is this guy? brother in-law, friend, brother? and who is this girl? sister, old girlfriend? First DONT get involved with something that is not your responsibility, if this guy is unstable, he comes home and you are there taking out his firing pins you get shot. Tell her she needs to contact someone from his family, someone he knows first of all and have them intervene. a guys has no biz stepping in and interfering with another dudes family no matter the reason unless he has a badge that says Officer.

honestly it sounds like a good way to get yourself shot. there is plenty you can do without putting yourself at risk. Get her to call his brother or father or somthin.
 
Re: Bad situation remedies

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: The Mechanic</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Restraining order.

Why is she still there?

Why are you getting involved if she won't leave?

More to this story I think</div></div>

+1
 
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So the situation is "I don't REALLY want to do something, but will you do something for me"

Regardless of ties, religion, etc. Unless someone in this mess (including you) is willing to take some kind of action it will simply continue to its predetermined end.

With the completely one sided and neutered story you have offered the only advise I have is to remove yourself from the situation.
 
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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: smokshwn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So the situation is "I don't REALLY want to do something, but will you do something for me"</div></div>

Not the case at all.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: smokshwn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">With the completely one sided and neutered story you have offered the only advise I have is to remove yourself from the situation. </div></div>

Duly noted. As you were
 
Re: Bad situation remedies

My OP was a request for advice about how to deal with a delicate situation intelligently, tactfully and legally. The responses to the post weren't what I was hoping for and I have deleted my posts in order to let this thread die.

Moderators please either lock or delete.