Heavy bullets absolutely eat up barrels faster, no question whatsoever about that. In the course of washing out literally hundreds of barrels in testing over the years, and keeping round count logs of every shot fired, heavy bullets (in the same chambering, i.e., 308s shooting 150s-168s vs 308s shooting 190s-200s, 6mm BRs shooting 70-75s, vs 6mm BRs shooting 105s-115s and so on) the heavier bullets routinely ate up barrels in about a third fewer rounds. D.ID is exactly correct on this; dwell time and overcoming the bullet's inertia before it moves it down the bore allows those gases and high temps to do their damage much more severely than the lighter bullets do. A quick check with a bore scope will confirm this. The last 3/4s of the barrel will generally look like new, while the first quarter or so will look like bad road in dire need of repaving. Much more obvious with barrels used with the heavy bullets than the somewhat more uniform wear you see with slower twist, light bullet barrels.