You're on the point: assuming that we're talkin'about a bolt action,you're right when you talk about to a "body die made specifically etc..."_
even better if your bolt action would be a true racing-gun,aka bench-rest,where all the tolerances are keeped to the minimum available, and when we say "all", I mean that even the brass is adequately chosen in few pieces among a large batch,pampered,prepped,etc._
but that is like comparing F1 cars solutions to all other vehicles_
the same neck sizing only would slow the brass stretching & wear, but for sure don't stop his growing, and overall don't stop the migration (and thinning) of the same brass from his head (rim zone) to the neck, and don't necessarily would better the accuracy,in my opinion,on a average rifle_
a good part of Glenn Zediker's "Reloading for Competition" is covering this matter,by the way (strongly advised)_
about a custom body die etc.: if I would be competition-oriented, w/out money issues,and with the availability of U.S. market about that, that would be my choice, reminding,on the opposite side, that the chamber/die combos are quite expensive and tied together: once the barrel is toasted, the die would be only a sad orphan, and that for hunting or precision shooting as often seen here, the real close tolerances can be a burden if not a danger, in the wrong environment_
on the real world: every shoot will wear and modify your brass progressively until his retirement, whatever task could be adopted_the brass is born to be expendable, and his life has an end: we are happy that the brass is the least expensive part of this activity, and I think here the 90% of the members can live quite well,and shoot quite well, accepting this fact, handloading w.quality but not mandatorily custom tools...
my humble advise is to invest few $ on a Zediker's book, trim your brass when oversize, replacing it when worn_
personally I'm full-resizing-oriented,in a way or another but, again, it's only my opinion_