While that’s likely true, I have a good mama and she did her best to teach me not to rain on other people’s parade. I’ve not always listened to that advice but mostly when I didn’t I wished I had.
My wife was an incredible mother to our son, and I don’t know where I’d be without her. Here is a pic from 1988, Imperial Beach Ca. This is as far south as you can go on the beach in the US. If you’ve ever been to Bud/s and run all the way to the river at the Mexican border, that’s where this pic was taken.