Re: MIM parts in my Springfield TRP 1911.
Slide stop
Safety
Firing pin stop
Firing pin
The sear and hammer are almost always a hardened/bar stock part because otherwise they would chew themselves up pretty fast.
If they won't tell you, that's a good list to start with. As with who to buy from, the wilson bulletproof line is solid, but spendy.
Frankly the whole MIM thing is over blown in many cases. I've seen junk bar stock parts and junk mim parts, I believe it's true that you are more likely to get good parts from bar stock when purchased from a reputable company. I agree absolutely though at the price of wilson/brown/nighthawk and even the TRP which is way overpriced these days there should be no Mim in them in any of the critical parts.
Almost every company out there uses some cast parts, in some cases it does not matter.
Take Wilson, their only guns that use 100% non-mim parts are the supergrades and the CQB elites. But it's rare to ever see even the normal CQB's break parts, they have the bulletproof parts where it counts. Also at what point do you draw the line.... here's an example Wilson earlier this year came out with a bulletproof thumb safety, grip safety, and mag release.
Now a thumb safety I can see, especially if it's an ambi because I've seen several of them break because the two piece design is weak (yet another good reason not to use them). However, a grip safety....I have no doubt that the bulletproof part is stronger but when was the last time anyone saw a grip safety break? I'm sure it happened somewhere, but I've seen half a dozen of the above listed parts fail if not a dozen along my shooting time and never even heard of a grip safety failing. I've also never seen or heard of a mag release failing.
Also another thing to be aware of, usually it's not an issue for quality parts but even the above parts may require some minor fitting, and you should re-verify reliability after replacing them as if the gun was new out of the box. Many times "drop in" does not live up to it's name. If you change several parts you may very well find new issues creeping up. Thumb safeties typically need a little fitting to be reliable with a solid notching.
I've seen countless guns go down at the range and when inquiring to the owner they've changed this part or that out themselves. This is the biggest reason guys have issues with glocks in competitions, they've changed out the springs, the triggers, etc. etc. and then wonder why their glock no longer runs 100%.