Re: Moving cross country
I moved fom MD to Texas a couple of years ago. If you plan to move yourself, here's a solution.
Pack up beds and clothes, a few dishes and what you'll need to live for a couple of weeks. I filled a 12 foot uhaul trailer for three of us. Put the rest in storage. When you get to where you're going, find a hotel and do some house hunting. Apartments can look good on the interweb until you get there and realize it's right next to the home depot and a night club. Take a week or so to find a place in a location you like. Move your trailer junk into the place, then head back to the old place (I flew back) and get a rental truck bigger than what you need - bigger truck = bigger motor = less hassle loaded down and heading over the mountains. If you have heavy stuff (safe, tool box) consider a lift gate or low boy trailer. One way it back and unload all your big stuff all at once.
If you have a service move your stuff, you're at the mercy of their schedule and you're nearly guaranteed to have something broken or lost.