Re: Neck tension
What process did you use for annealing? Sounds like some cases are softer than others. I doubt neck thickness is your problem. If you haven't experienced this before with this batch of brass, then neck thickness shouldn't be your problem.
I keep my brass sorted by headstamp and also lot number (meaning if I buy 100 lapua brass now and more later, the first 100 will always stay together and not get mixed with any later batches I buy). This really isn't an issue with Lapua, but I've noticed differences in case weight from batch to batch from Win, RP, Fed, etc.
If you were dealing with mixed RP, Win, and Fed, It might be possible that the annealed brass from each manufacturer exhibited different "springyness when annealed. Since all RP, probably not the problem.
Doublecheck your annealing process.