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What they said. Primers are also an indicator but not the best. If your pressures are high enough to make the primer look like it's just a continuation of the case head, with no remaining radius at the edges at all, you might want to also back off. That said, soft primers can give false pressure indications while bolt lift and ejector marks are definitely telling you "TOO MUCH".
It's also a good idea to do this development work with a chronograph. If you start working into speeds that are way higher than published speeds you are more likely than not getting close to the limits. Besides, it's nice to have that data for later use. Why do the work twice?
I did one load workup using 5 rounds per charge, a chronograph, and targets set at 300 yards. I was then able to select the best SD/ES, Group size, and loads with no pressure signs. The whole "Map" in one session.