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So my Mom called this evening...

dlc356

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Mar 2, 2006
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She asked why I left so quickly.(?) I asked her when/what she was talking about and she said, "You know, just a few minutes ago. You came in the front door and then left." The scary part is I had not stopped by her house today. She wouldn't go to a neighbor's, stay on the phone, call the Police, etc. She assured me it was just an honest mistake. That someone must have come to the wrong house and so on. I told her I was on my way. We only live a couple minutes away but it seemed a lot longer tonight.

No one was in the house. I called the PD to let them know just in case her's wasn't the only house. Spoke with a Sgt. who said there had not been any similar reports but he would tell the beat Officer. I understand it could have just been a drunk that wandered into the wrong house but it's not a new subdivision where every other house looks the same. To me it almost seemed like a ploy to see if anyone was home. Of course Mom thinks I'm an "alarmist" but I don't think I did enough. Even though no one was there, and I probably would have gotten there first I think I should have called PD on the way. If it, or anything similar happens again I definitely will. I realized on the way home, "Dumbass! What if there was someone there. What the hell would she have done?"... Mom just turned 70(Feb.), dealing with a partially functioning liver, and tiny. She used to be all of 5'1" but I swear she's shrunk two inches in the last year.

It's an odd feeling... Sort of surreal. In a way it feels like I over-reacted but at the same time like I under-reacted. If that makes any sense at all.
 
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Never never feel bad about over reacting to protecting your Mom she the lady who got you into this world . Mines gone in a car wreck at 10 years old . Do what ever it takes to keep her safe extra cameras hooked to online what ever it takes. You did good under stress we forget things but shes ok good luck and God bless the tiny lady your Mom.
 
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You're a good son. Not always easy to keep everything in order on such short notice, especially when it's over concern about someone so dear.

Glad she is OK and you have the opportunity to be proactive going forward.
 
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There is no way you over-reacted, in a situation like that it is always best to over-react, then if it turns out to be nothing, good, but what if she was in danger? Never second guess your instinct, if you think you or someone you love is in danger, ALWAYS over-react.
 
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Dadcrossed over 8 yrs ago and my brotheer and I are taking care of mom. Its the right thing to do after all they have done for us.Your a man and doing a mans and sons job, be proud of it so many turn there backs on there people when age comes apon them. I commend you for not backing away like so many do. MM
 
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That's definitely not an overreaction, I'm the same way with my grandparents(they're the ones that raised me) and we live in a pretty bad area. If I get a call and anything seems wrong I'm usually on the way..
 
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I appreciate the comments ya'll. I went by yesterday after picking up a prescription for her and she's still not locking the door. She's been getting better at it but still slips up every now and then. I think part of it is she grew up in a little town where everybody knew everybody and no one locked doors (think Mayberry)... The area she lives in is a nice part of town. Not a whole lot of crime. Mostly property crimes and I can only remember one violent crime since I've been around (34yo).
 
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*NOT* an over reaction in anyway on your part!! How about this, had you not gone and something did happen, I'm guessing you would feel horrible right? (I know the answer is yes based on the OP) Soooooo, even if she lived an hour away, the 3-4 hours of time and gas would be worth the peace-of-mind, PERIOD! There is no arguing that!

As others have said, it could VERY WELL have been people casing out who is where at what time of day! There are a plethora of scam artists out there that prey on the elderly/retired commnity. The "your roof needs fixing", "i'll paint your house cheap", "I'll upgrade your windows for my highschool project" etc. All these people do is look at your routine(s) and attack when opportunity opens up.

Locking doors, motion lights, an easy to operate cell phone that still calls 911 even without a cell phone plan(most any celly in last 10 years will do this), a reminder note somewhere obvious for her so she remembers to lock doors at night or once she's done going out of the house for the night. If her neighbors are trustworthy, everyone keeps an eye out for the other, etc. I know these sound really simple and obvious, but it's these preventative measures that stop a vast majority of the property crimes.

You did good!! Don't think twice about it!!!!!!!
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-G45