I’m surprised that so many shooters are open to either a 2 lug or 3 lug action. I’d expect a stronger preference for one over the other on an individual level.
It only took me owning one 3 lug action before I knew that they were not for me.
To the OP, the only thing you’re going to get here is personal preference. And different shooters have different taste in an action.
I would strongly suggest though, that if you have not shot a 3 lug action before, try it before you buy it. A lot of people love them, but if you are used to bolt manipulation feeling a certain way....they do feel different.