Your loading manual should give you specs on brass trim length as well as COAL. The Lock n Load gauge will then tell you your cartridge's seating depth to the riflings if you know how to use it...do you? I have watched a few youtube videos using the hornady lock and load gauge but haven't played with it yet
You only need to trim brass if it approaches max book length...that is if your rifle's chamber was cut like that. For example in my 6.5Creed, max is 1.920", trim-to length is 1.910" and so mine are about 1.913" so I have room to grow. Are you using brand new brass, or fired? Fired in your rifle, or someone elses? Get a bump gauge too, because eventually brass grows and you'll need to bump your shoulders back, and need a measurement to properly set your sizing die. What dies are you using? I bought the lapua brass new but I now have fired it at least twice. All of it has been in my rifle. We are using the standard rcbs dies. The way I tried to set the dies was more a trial and error where I loaded a shell and then measured it trying to get the overall length to 2.800 or close
Use your lock n load gauge as stated in the manual, put the comparator on your calipers and measure. The readout will give you the distance from the base of your cartridge to the ogive (the spot on the bullet where it first contacts the rifling). If you did it right, that's zero (0) jam, zero (0) jump. I don't know what caliber you're shooting or what bullet, but then you can research options and decide if you want/need to jam or jump your bullets. You'll have to play with it to see what your rifle likes.
Another example: My bullets are 2.230" to the ogive in my chamber, I'm jumping them 0.040" so I set my die to seat them at 2.190" (2.230 - 0.040 = 2.190) to the ogive. The COAL is 2.866" though, +/- 0.001". You also have to be careful of seating depth if you're feeding from a magazine or not.
I'm far from an expert so take this with a grain of salt. There are much more experienced guys on here, but this is what I've learned recently by reading books, reading these forums, asking on here and asking friends who do this. It's a pain at first and there have been a few times that I've questioned why I'm bothering with it. But, it is fun once you start to get the hang of it. Go slow, read and be safe!