This is my SECOND lawyer. Going to speak to 2 other lawyers and fire this one tomorrow. I will pay. Show me someone who knows the law. But I appreciate your input. Please go play keyboard commando somewhere else. You wouldn’t speak to me this way in person. Funny you feel the need to speak this way over computer. Sad really
I’d like your input
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I’m not in your AO, but reach out the anyone wealthy who has dealt with this stuff. Friend, relative, hell, even a borderline criminal acquaintance. Asking as the $$ is not important, I’m sure you can find solid representation. I would suggest the hottest meanest female you can find. Not dating material, but a tool for the job. Remember, holding fast on the moral or righteous point is stupid and not productive. This woman wants to continue her association with you because that hurts you. Your goal is to pay whatever it costs to never interact with her again. Fuck the $$, you can make more. Don’t sniff the kitty one more time, there are lots of fish in the sea.
This thread makes me want to renew my divorce vows, single since 1997 , and only one serious girlfriend, dumped her when she made a ultimatum that we get married or else, I grabbed some clothes and walked away and haven't spoken to her since, now I have a house, nice shop ,three safes full of guns , a bayboat ,3 vehicles and it's all paid for , I'll probably never marry again, hell I ain't even been on a date for years , do visit the Asian massage places occasionally, lots cheaper than a girlfriend, and even if the judge on your case awards her any guns it could only be half of them or the money they'd bring , as for the judges order that doesn't sound legal ,unless she lied and said you threatened her ,then redflag laws might kick in .
Actually I just did my attorneys job and reviewed the original order. It is catestrophic for the judge and opposing council and my imbecile attorney could’ve easily crushed this. He is fired. Here’s the details.
Long story short. Order says husband will make firearms available for an appraisal. I did that. I even paid for it. It doesn’t say an appraiser of wife’s choosing. It also says FIREARMS, nothing else. Bill admitted he sent that guy there to go through my house and appraise all of my reloading equipment, and anything firearm related!! That’s outside of the order! He openly stated he intended to go outside of the judges order!! So not only did I comply 100%, but Bill attempted to DEFY the order!
Yet somehow the judge says I didn’t comply and thinks he can seize everything firearm related with no lawful basis for seizure?! He doesn’t even have a basis for saying I was noncompliant! I’m going to beg the incredible lawyer that did my first divorce (who wasn’t available to do this one) on my hands and knees. I don’t care what it costs. I also had a very strong recommendation for another attorney who represented a trauma surgeon I work with as well as one of the cardiologists. His reviews are exceptional. So I will spend a few hours literally on my knees tomorrow asking for one of them to take this. Based on what I’ve compiled it would be very wise for the judge to recuse himself. I will be hiring a second attorney to submit a complaint to the BAR regarding opposing councils conduct. Lastly I’ve put together a detailed complaint to the Judicial Qualifications Commission regarding the Judges overt misconduct. If the judge refuses to recuse himself I will have very strong grounds for an appeal. I’m done. I don’t care what it costs for a good attorney. I’ve found nothing but stupidity thus far. How did my attorney miss all of that?!
Shit.. the hottest meanest female actually does make a lot of sense. That hadn’t occurred to me. I could definitely use a third option just in case. Any suggestions as how to track that person down? Are there forums? Chat groups? Anything?
Krystal Knox absolutely cleaned my SIL out for my Brother. SIL and her attorney played the same kind of games, with a "compliant" judge. Hopefully she can help you?
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Yep. I swore to myself I’d never remarry. I feel I deserve a little of this after going back on my stance. My brother just divorced his THIRD wife. He’s 43.
This doesn’t help you any, but reading this and hearing similar stories reminds me of a guy I worked with over 20 years ago that offered me $500 to off his ex wife. I laughed, but he said he was serious
. I still laughed him off, but I can see why guys get so desperate to get out of these situations. Also makes me glad to have an amazing wife.
. I still laughed him off, but I can see why guys get so desperate to get out of these situations. Also makes me glad to have an amazing wife.My wife’s attorney is a total sleeze and tries to intimidate people despite looking like the offspring of a bridge troll and a garden gnome. He’s a towering 5’6. That doesn’t work super well in my case. While I stand at a staggering 5’9, I’m 240lbs with a 32” waist and just under 20” arms. So instead he implies that I’m a bully. Real scum. It’s going to take some real thick skin with him. He doesn’t try to hide the fact that he weaponizes the system and will lie in perpetuity. This guy is a sleeze. He steamrolled over the last 2. You think she can cut it?
My dad did this and then he dated her, that’s a shitty idea lol
So you’re saying she has a better lawyer that’s actually good at his job…
Cordell and Cordell did a phenomenal job for a flying buddy when he finally divorced his psycho wife… He got full custody of their daughter too.
He’s better than my lawyer. He got smoked at a DUI trial against a young police officer in 2013, me, so I wouldn’t call him “good”. In fact since that time the traffic unit refers to him as “Blowhard” Bennett
I read your post again. You opened your own account and signed off of the joint account. WTF do you care about what she did with the money in an account you declared to have no interest in?
From all accounts of your posts here. I think you have some brain damage from carbon monoxide. Too much sitting in an idling car on the side of the road.
Well he only needs to do good once against you and so far it’s working since it’s got you so fucked up you’re on SH asking advice. A DUI trial a decade ago doesn’t really mean shit with your divorce
Wait till you get the order to pay her legal bills. Then you’ll be pissed.
Hire a pitbull. You need to fight fire with fire. Demand the jewelry be appraised and split. My wife would still win if we split my guns vs her jewelry….but only cus I lied when I told her what they cost lol
Hire a pitbull. You need to fight fire with fire. Demand the jewelry be appraised and split. My wife would still win if we split my guns vs her jewelry….but only cus I lied when I told her what they cost lol
Why not? Cuz you're a bad ass with 20" arms? Probably nuts the size of a pea and a brain to match. Definitely the second of those two.
Reading comprehension is good. You clearly have no concept of divorce law. While I didn’t ACTUALLY sign off it, I was taken off of it since I couldn’t be on a joint and individual account. Second it’s marital account. My paycheck went into it. It’s marital. Thanks for playing troglodyte. Keep you dumbass to yourself. I’m getting enough of it in a daily basis. How pathetic are you that you look for threads to post in to insult people from behind a keyboard?! Your future looks REALY BRIGHT CHAMP!!
You’re pathetic. Putting it on display for everyone to see. Tell us about your “truth”
@thedude824
Bitching on the internet about this can fuck you
How? because what if they now want records of all your online accounts and where you post? They can ask for this…
Or what if she’s monitoring your online presence?
Your best bet is to shut up, hire a pit bull attorney, and get shit done.
I’m sure you’re a fireball of emotions, but coming in here and asking for advice then pissing on the people who are offering you damn good advice isn’t helping your case.
Nut up. Shut up. And get to work. You’re arguing over material possessions that can be replaced. Let it go.
Bitching on the internet about this can fuck you
How? because what if they now want records of all your online accounts and where you post? They can ask for this…
Or what if she’s monitoring your online presence?
Your best bet is to shut up, hire a pit bull attorney, and get shit done.
I’m sure you’re a fireball of emotions, but coming in here and asking for advice then pissing on the people who are offering you damn good advice isn’t helping your case.
Nut up. Shut up. And get to work. You’re arguing over material possessions that can be replaced. Let it go.
For real, the sooner you get this done, the better you will sleep at night. Not worth it! Men lose in the end regardless what you do!
Attention wife shoppers.....pay attention to these threads and stay single.... it aint worth it today!
Never been divorced, but I think the best advice I ever read was to hire an attorney that was such a sonuvabitch that YOU couldn’t even stand to be around him/her.
Oh yeah, and don’t talk about your divorce on the interweb. That’s a good one too….
Oh yeah, and don’t talk about your divorce on the interweb. That’s a good one too….
I have a joint account and with my wife and an individual account and a business account. Also a separate savings account.
I'm calling bullshit.
The judge made you put half of your check in an account for her? Or you did it hoping to get used pussy back? Or you did it because you are a stoooopid schlub? I know people in Florida that have gotten a divorce that had children involved. They didn't have to give half of their pay for child support and alimony.
BTW, it's not a joint account if you don't have access. None of what you are saying adds up.
You are the one that brags about your intimidating stature and your 20 inch guns. Not only in this thread. You have done it in at least one other thread. But too stoooopid to use the Google search bar on what to do to protect yourself in a divorce. Too stoooopid to use the search on YouTube on how to change a door lock or reset the lock on your gun safe. Too stupid to put security cameras out of reach or hidden.
The day she moved out.
1. Change all utilities into your name
2. Stop all mail in her name at the post office
3. Change all locks
4. Put all of her belongings in a storage unit. May as well put all furniture, dishes etc in the storage unit. Give her the key to the storage unit.
5. Security cameras inside and outside that are Internet/cell connected
6. Notify the police any time she is on the property
She abandoned the property and has no claim to it as a domicile.
7. Get a restraining order
And here you are on the Hide airing your dirty laundry asking for advice in a divorce that is taking two or three times longer than it should have. Even after you have been through it before.
So you are a two time loser that didn't learn a damned thing from the first ride.
Go pump some iron. I'm sure you will find another gym rat to get hooked up with.
Here's a good piece of advice.
Now that you are in the medical field. Stay the fuck away from the females in that profession. You would have a better chance finding a normal female at a stripper bar than in the medical field.
Sorry to see you going thru this. Sounds a lot like mine. Unfortunately, you'll most likely find that the asshole attorneys are working together. If you've ever been to a bar with these assholes, you can hear them joking about who is going to trade what for the win. They "trade off" wins.
I would file a restraining order on her asap. I haven't read all the threads here, so I don't know the living arrangements. Change out of locks and install of cameras are good ideas.
It looks like your world is ending ( it isn't), but don't let it drag on. Get it over with asap and move on.
I would file a restraining order on her asap. I haven't read all the threads here, so I don't know the living arrangements. Change out of locks and install of cameras are good ideas.
It looks like your world is ending ( it isn't), but don't let it drag on. Get it over with asap and move on.
We all gotta learn, sometimes it’s the hard way. Glad I had a good group of guys giving me tough love/advice when I was in the shitI get a sense of deja vu with this advice.
You're not being right, slow your roll.
I'm in Tampa and went through a high asset and liability divorce with two children under 2.
I'm happy to spend some time with you, get a hold of me and swing by. I have a big shop just north of the airport
You’re the man, I don’t care what anyone else says
You're giving top notch advice like a really good attorney. You should bill the OP like an attorney would.
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