Re: 6mm or 6.5 grendale
I have a 6.5 Grendel and think it's quite the round. I've tested on two of my own 24" platforms and a 16" and 18" platform. That covers carbine, medium rifle and full length gas paths. Which is really the key to getting maximum velocity out of the case in an AR platform.
Inside of 1k, it's a wash as to which one is better, some like the slightly faster velocity of the 6mm's and some like the harder hitting power of the 6.5's. The 6.5 Lapua has the best ballistics of all of them. But the 6mm can keep up with that in velocity. From what I've seen the 123 Lapua has the best ballistics and wind bucking capability. But, you pretty much have to load those yourself. But, you'd do that with the 6mm anyhow.
As far as a decision between the 6.8 and th 6.5 (or any 6.5G case variant), you will find what robert neuser said and that is within a relatively short range, i.e. 400 yds/m you won't find hardly a hill of beans difference. That holds true to all ranges with non-high BC bullets. The difference is you can load high BC bullets in the 6.5 and you can't in the 6.8 SPC. Really, the perfect balance of weight, velocity, and BC is either 6.5 or 6mm.
You can also consider th BR cases, which now finally have a magazine that reliably feed those cases
http://www.bratrifles.com/. A sizeable reduction numerically in cases, though.
With the Olympic Arms you can get a WSSM chambered upper. These are the only folks building these anymore from a commercial/non-custom standpoint. The most power you can get out of an AR-15 platform. Again, serious reduction in magazine capacity.