Took the Wife to see Dear John for Vaentines day. Felt like I was being kicked in the Balls for 1hr 40ish minutes. It doesn't matter if your wife/GF tells you anything goes in the bedroom after you see the movie with them. Sit on your hand for 20mins and give yourself the stranger....You will be further off ahead. Note to self "Never see a movie based on a Novel by Nicholas Sparks!"