Death Prediction

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Minuteman
Apr 22, 2024
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Death Prediction...this question is for anyone with an opinion but I hope to hear from those in the healthcare profession and jobs that get lots of honest feedback from numerous people. How common is it for people to have a gut feeling about when they are going to die? Not weeks or months beforehand but many years...decades? And is it common to actually die at the age you expect? Is death premonition a common thing and how often is it correct...especially for those who felt the number for a very long time?

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My dad was sure that he was going to die at 55. He even moved out of the bedroom and into the La-Z-Boy in the living room. I think he was looking forward to it.

On his 56th birthday, mom made him a birthday cake that said: "Aren't you pissed?"

He is 82 now, and still works outside more than most guys half his age.

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I feel that without an actual medical diagnosis of a terminal illness, that 'death premonition' is as random as anything. Maybe some get it right to within a year or two, but probably 20x that get it wrong.
 
I will tell you from experience (30+) years as a Paramedic, death is a hard one to predict even for people that have been placed into Hospice care. I had an uncle who was in Hospice 5 or 6 times(it's an huge industry) he just wouldn't die. While I personally don't think I will be long lived it is IMO a many faceted calculation ie; genetics, history such as smoking, alcohol, drugs, obesity etc. to predict anyone's demise with any certainty especially considering death is sometimes just dumb luck or fate. Idiot's doing stupid things not withstanding as that is a constant factor LOL. But considering how many people I saw die horrible, traumatic and totally unpredictable deaths and the circumstances they died, I think it's only human to have some thoughts and perhaps premonitions on our own mortality.
 
I do not fear death however I am more proactive in completing my bucket list before I kick the bucket. It's just an odd feeling I've had for so long now...as I near the age (5 yrs from now) I find myself handling situations better...more philosophically, calmer. I sleep better, lost 70lbs and am no longer dealing with diabetes and hypertension. But this idea that there's a date code on me that I've felt for over 35yrs now puzzles me. Why do I even sense this? I dunno. Just curious about it and wondered if it's more common than anyone realizes. It's not the kind of think you wanna talk about.