Finding a wife

[Longshot231]

Feminists


More feminists. All of them.


However, i do see their point of calling out other women for feminism and hypocrisy. But time will reveal they are like the pot calling the kettle black.

That's true but what I like about the women that are calling out the conservative covert feminists, is that they recognize they also have that feminist trait in their DNA and that they need to deal with it.

The covert feminists don't think that they are feminists. The women that declare themselves to be feminists are more honest than the covert ones calling themselves the trad-wives.

 

[Makinchips208]

That's true but what I like about the women that are calling out the conservative covert feminists, is that they recognize they also have that feminist trait in their DNA and that they need to deal with it.

The covert feminists don't think that they are feminists. The women that declare themselves to be feminists are more honest than the covert ones calling themselves the trad-wives.

Thats true. And often times a woman can see through another women better than a man can.

 

[748rpilot]

Trying to date these days is fucking horrible. It's all about "the apps" because women "don't want to be bothered" in person or in public. (Except of course if you're obviously rich or exceptionally tall and good looking --then it's ok.)

Social media has put "hoeflation" into over-drive. Women's expectations for what they expect in a man are completely outlandish, while they continue to contribute less and less.

I'm not bad looking, but nothing to write home about, have several hobbies, am generally useful, responsible, caring, and by most measures, am well-employed.

I haven't been on a date since before the "pandemic". I was on "the apps" for several months; Tinder, OK Cupid, Hinge. Each day I'd go through my allotment of "likes" on each app --hundreds a week.

Didn't get a single "like" back (that wasn't a bot whose account no longer existed when I tried to view the profile) in that entire time, let alone messages or dates.

I'm now in my late 30s so the 20-somethings aren't interested because I'm old, and the single women my age are 95% single moms. And then you add in all the alphabet mafia bullshit, BLM loving, non-sense and the dating pool for a normal, conservative guy is miniscule.

So, all I do is work, go home, and shoot pistols. All my friends have families, so I'm kind of the odd-man out.

 

[Gunfighter14e2]

So, all I do is work, go home, and shoot pistols. All my friends have families, so I'm kind of the odd-man out.

Same here, but now finding more & more life is much simpler when dealing with anything in the safe or shop vs some latch on looking for a free ride, that has to be gushed over all the time.

 

[Longshot231]

Trying to date these days is fucking horrible. It's all about "the apps" because women "don't want to be bothered" in person or in public. (Except of course if you're obviously rich or exceptionally tall and good looking --then it's ok.)

Social media has put "hoeflation" into over-drive. Women's expectations for what they expect in a man are completely outlandish, while they continue to contribute less and less.

I'm not bad looking, but nothing to write home about, have several hobbies, am generally useful, responsible, caring, and by most measures, am well-employed.

I haven't been on a date since before the "pandemic". I was on "the apps" for several months; Tinder, OK Cupid, Hinge. Each day I'd go through my allotment of "likes" on each app --hundreds a week.

Didn't get a single "like" back (that wasn't a bot whose account no longer existed when I tried to view the profile) in that entire time, let alone messages or dates.

I'm now in my late 30s so the 20-somethings aren't interested because I'm old, and the single women my age are 95% single moms. And then you add in all the alphabet mafia bullshit, BLM loving, non-sense and the dating pool for a normal, conservative guy is miniscule.

So, all I do is work, go home, and shoot pistols. All my friends have families, so I'm kind of the odd-man out.

Same here, but now finding more & more life is much simpler when dealing with anything in the safe or shop vs some latch on looking for a free ride, that has to be gushed over all the time.

Gentlemen, don't feel bad. You have no idea how big of a guided missile has missed you!

I was married twice. Each time, I thought that I had found the "right one." Each one made my life a living hell and I lost a fortune because of them. One mother-in-law even tried to have me killed.

My relatives and most one-time friends believed the lies one of the ex-wives spread about me. My children were even turned against me. So I turned my back and walked away from all of them.

The friends that didn't believe the lies have stuck closer to me than blood relatives. My new friends are more precious to me than the kids that have betrayed me.

So don't look back but forward. No woman is worth losing your freedom, sanity or fortune over. There are new adventures waiting for you. There are over 8.2 billion people in the world. So there's no excuse for not finding a close friend or two.

I live alone and there is finally peace in my life. It's fantastic. I like to treat myself to a nice dinner at a nice restaurant every now and then. There's no embarrassment when I get the "table for one" while there are couples all around me. I just smile and think that the poor sap paying for that dame's dinner is eventually going to get screwed over.

I watch the families with children and always notice how the mom is in charge. That may not be noticeable to some single men but I can tell right way.

You can see the misery on the father's face as mommy has to be the center of attention of the children. The poor man can't even enjoy his children because of the selfish bitch that he's married to.

Pity the poor man that dares to smack an unruly child on the butt in public because the "good" mommy will put him in his place or he will get the CPS hounds on his ass.

Now don't get me wrong. I like children. At one time, mine were sweet and cuddly bundles of joy until the ex-wives got sole custody. They are an adult freak show now. I love my kids but don't have to like them, put up with their insanity or be around them.

Gentlemen, I say all of this to emphasize the fact that you are not missing anything. Count yourself lucky.

I spent 23 years in the military; active duty and reserve. I was to young to go to Vietnam but wanted to join the army so bad back then.

When I did enlist, a lot of the older NCOs who befriended me and were in Vietnam opened up about the utter futility and frustrations over there. I met a lot of POWs who were permanently crippled because of what the gooks did to them. They all told me that I didn't miss anything.

My father was a WWII veteran and told me that I didn't miss anything either.

For some reason the Army wouldn't take me for Desert Storm or OEI. I really wanted to see some action and kill some terrorists but they wouldn't take me. I had some skill sets that were unique and they were also short of. So I'm baffled as to why I couldn't go overseas to fight.

Some younger friends who served in the sandbox have a lot of health problems because of the burn pits and SARS vaccines (aka Covid shots). Keep in mind those are non-combat disabilities.

So I look at them and think that my health could really be messed up now even if I were lucky enough not to get wounded. God probably saved me from my own stupidity.

I say that because I've learned that war and marriage have a lot in common. There's no love and glory in either.

 

[Bullfrog08]

Trying to date these days is fucking horrible. It's all about "the apps" because women "don't want to be bothered" in person or in public. (Except of course if you're obviously rich or exceptionally tall and good looking --then it's ok.)

Social media has put "hoeflation" into over-drive. Women's expectations for what they expect in a man are completely outlandish, while they continue to contribute less and less.

I'm not bad looking, but nothing to write home about, have several hobbies, am generally useful, responsible, caring, and by most measures, am well-employed.

I haven't been on a date since before the "pandemic". I was on "the apps" for several months; Tinder, OK Cupid, Hinge. Each day I'd go through my allotment of "likes" on each app --hundreds a week.

Didn't get a single "like" back (that wasn't a bot whose account no longer existed when I tried to view the profile) in that entire time, let alone messages or dates.

I'm now in my late 30s so the 20-somethings aren't interested because I'm old, and the single women my age are 95% single moms. And then you add in all the alphabet mafia bullshit, BLM loving, non-sense and the dating pool for a normal, conservative guy is miniscule.

So, all I do is work, go home, and shoot pistols. All my friends have families, so I'm kind of the odd-man out.

If you want a woman or the company of women, just ignore them. AND I mean ignore them! Don't give them a look, don't interact, don't even smile, and then when they approach, and they will, treat them like the vile creatures they are! I never let women talk to me about men or their ex husband/ex bf in a negative manner. When a woman says something about "getting rid of her man". It's my que to leave or tell them to fuck off! Something about that approach appeals to women! Not sure what.

It's my general approach, not to get women, but because I truely can't stand them! I hate 99% of the women that exist in this country. They are all attention seeking whores that have not understanding of loyalty. I get more attention than I ever have at any point in my life being the way I am. I get attention from young girls, moms, married women, women my age. I'm very fit, and decent looking, but not a model by any means! I'm 50, so a lot older than 30s!

Go up to a woman as a single man, compliment them today, and let me know the response you get. It'll be some caddy bitch ass response. I don't hold doors for them, I don't say excuse me around them, I don't get out of the way for them. If I'm in the fast lane and see a woman driving behind me, I won't even move over. I only treat men and kids with respect. Woman can fuck off!

This thread always brings emotions to the front for me, I need to avoid this thread!

Dating apps.....what a fucking JOKE! Those are the lowest POS women you will find! Men should not even grace those shit hole places with their presences!

Life is soooooooo much better as a single man. All married men around here think otherwise, they just have that buyers remorse. They bought bought that Ruger Precision rifle and will die telling people it is the best rifle ever! Don't believe that shit!

You get lonely, get a DOG or a CAT! They are more loyal than any woman, and they won't steal your shit!

 

[Gunfighter14e2]

Gentlemen, don't feel bad. You have no idea how big of a guided missile has missed you!

My problem is I've seen the good side of marriage (the good lord called her home before me after 39 wonderful years) and unless you have ever experienced that its very hard to grasp, especially in today's world. It is something that few get to live, but trust me its worth it. The main thing to remember is never ever,... marry for Tits, Ass, or Cash. Even then before you say I do, ask yourself are you willing to turn over 100% control of your money/property management, if not,... she is not the one you seek. If Tits an Ass or arm candy is your thing, rent it,... the worlds full of them.

 

[Longshot231]

My problem is I've seen the good side of marriage (the good lord called her home before me after 39 wonderful years) and unless you have ever experienced that its very hard to grasp, especially in today's world. It is something that few get to live, but trust me its worth it. The main thing to remember is never ever,... marry for Tits, Ass, or Cash. Even then before you say I do, ask yourself are you willing to turn over 100% control of your money/property management, if not,... she is not the one you seek. If Tits an Ass or arm candy is your thing, rent it,... the worlds full of them.

It's nice that you had a good marriage and I feel for your loss. That sucks. However, your marriage was the exception rather than the rule.

The statistics don't lie. Modern marriage is statistically against men. If there was a 75% chance of me getting in an auto accident, I wouldn't leave the driveway.

 

[Gunfighter14e2]

It's nice that you had a good marriage and I feel for your loss. That sucks. However, your marriage was the exception rather than the rule.

Coming for a hellish home & childhood made me stronger, I think. I was lucky in the fact my Great Uncle and his family took me under their wing and showed me how it was supposed to be. I then made a promise to myself, that I would vet & test any prospect before saying I do and having kids, as I never would allow my kids to go thru or suffer what I went thru. Also made sure all the running, was out of me before settling down, which I think helped a lot as well.

 

[ironman56]

My 2nd wife disappeared 25yrs ago ,they haven't found her yet ,hopefully they never will.....

 

[Longshot231]