"Girls We’re Friendzoning All The Good Guys"

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You know you would hit this like the fist of the gods.

Don't lie now.............

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She's in better shape than most of the 20 year old that are out there any more. There was a girl that used to work at the grocery store here in town between stints at college that looked pretty good. Now that she's graduated she's doubled in size.
 
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It may seem comical but its true, Never got such advice but i never was an emotionally ready person. Women thought i was hard and bad but i don't pour out my thought or emotion. I don't go around sending flowers and food. Or call ladies for long hours and i swear i have always had it good with women. Most are slut in their 20's... Never take the young ones seriously. In their 30's they have a little experience and more focused with the finances and priorities and that when they wan to level down with reality but we all know that the P**** looks like a half boiled chicken by then. lol.
Knowing that there are female moderators on this site as well as members, why would you write this? Its a public forum and reflects poorly on us all. Not to mention its untrue misogyny. I strongly suspect that those men who married in their 20s, have daughters, sisters, or moms would by and large disagree with you.

I don't even talk like that about my neighbors dog like that.
 
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    Knowing that there are female moderators on this site as well as members, why would you write this? Its a public forum and reflects poorly on us all. Not to mention its untrue misogyny. I strongly suspect that those men who married in their 20s, have daughters, sisters, or moms would by and large disagree with you.

    I don't even talk like that about my neighbors dog like that.

    guessing you dont visit nor approve of the thread where 90% of the posts are tits...
     
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    It may seem comical but its true, Never got such advice but i never was an emotionally ready person. Women thought i was hard and bad but i don't pour out my thought or emotion. I don't go around sending flowers and food. Or call ladies for long hours and i swear i have always had it good with women. Most are slut in their 20's... Never take the young ones seriously. In their 30's they have a little experience and more focused with the finances and priorities and that when they wan to level down with reality but we all know that the P**** looks like a half boiled chicken by then. lol.

    I'd put this in the "definitely ignore" category
     

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    guessing you dont visit nor approve of the thread where 90% of the posts are tits...
    I do. But damn, all women in their 20s are sluts and women's genitalia start to look mangled in their 30s? Besides the fact that neither are true, surely we are just a shade better and more respectful than that. Maybe not by much, admittedly.
     
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    I'd put this in the "definitely ignore" category
    Why, it's normal locker room talk.

    I knew an old hillbilly that married his wife when she was a teen. He was telling us that when they first got married her p**** looked like half a Georgia peach with the seed removed.

    Now, he said it looked like a cow patty with a wagon track running through it.
     
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  • That shit was written by a dude...

    It reads EXACTLY like some of the 'nice guy' and simp rants that you can see on YouTube all the time. And this "chick" actually acknowledges that she made a mistake and has been doing things wrong??? Nah, man, some incel wrote this. And it gave me a fucking headache.

    I don't see why people of BOTH genders are still complaining about shit like this these days. It is the BASIC law of BIOLOGICAL attraction. Simple as that. People have preferences, and the right to choose. Just like most guys would not want to date a slobbering fattie with atrocious hygiene issues and who stuffs her face in Cheetos every waking minute, VERY FEW women would find a smelly, unhygienic neckbeard with no job and a video game/anime addiction attractive.

    If you are "friendzoned", that just means she didn't find you romantically attractive. It is simple as that. They are just being polite in declining your advances. Don't overthink it. Move the fuck on. If you actually think that women owe you sex because you have been their "best friend" or have done "nice things" for them, then you are the same as the militant left/ANTIFA/LGBTQ trannies who think that anybody who disagrees with them should be sent to camps. It is creepy and disgusting. GET RID of that mentality if you have any of it. Instead, focus on IMPROVING YOURSELF. Ask yourself: What do you contribute to the world? What are your strengths? And how can you use these strengths positively and into a productive career?

    And to all of those blackpilled types who think that you have to be an "asshole" to get laid, well guess what? You have been drinking the incel Kool Aid too. Heterosexual women don't like assholes, or asskissers. They want MEN. MEN who can take care of problems that arise in life without melting down and have to run to their safe spaces. MEN who can control their emotions and temper. You DO NOT simp around a woman. Do NOT compliment them unless they are your wife/GF already. Do NOT buy them shit or give them presents. Do NOT show weakness or vulnerability around them, even if you are under stress. All of that is showing weakness. They do NOT like that.

    Here is a few simple tips not just for success in finding a partner, but success in the social world generally...

    Be polite, but distant.

    Be friendly, but cold.

    Be assertive in what you are looking for. Do NOT accept compromises.

    Draw the limit at answering personal questions. It can be about your dating life or if you are single, or whatever. "I am sorry but these are personal issues and I do not discuss these with people I am not familiar with". THIS shows that you have limits, and you do not just trust anybody foolishly. People like challenges. They like to try to obtain the hard to reach and unobtainable. Be HARD TO READ, yet friendly and approachable. People will want to know more about you, and you should ALWAYS remain in control of they can or cannot know of you.
     
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    Why, it's normal locker room talk.

    I knew an old hillbilly that married his wife when she was a teen. He was telling us that when they first got married her p**** looked like half a Georgia peach with the seed removed.

    Now, he said it looked like a cow patty with a wagon track running through it.
    Not talking about some of the specifics, but the general point he's making.
     
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    Many of the unique, smart, edgy attractive type of single women have a bitch steak and a track record of multiple ex husbands and boyfriends because she'll confess she was 'mean to them.'

    She'll also have more men 'friends' on her social media and group email list than women, by far. She's screwed many of them and then dumped them. She'll also have a bunch of leg humpers that will work on her car, re wire her new A/C unit or do anything else she asks, for free, just at the remote chance they have a shot at her.

    Best way to deal with these manhaters is have a fling with them and ghost them. They were planning on doing it to you.
     

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    It works better verbally, I did the best I could with the information I had, I'm just as God made me.
     

    vinniedelpino

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    It may seem comical but its true, Never got such advice but i never was an emotionally ready person. Women thought i was hard and bad but i don't pour out my thought or emotion. I don't go around sending flowers and food. Or call ladies for long hours and i swear i have always had it good with women. Most are slut in their 20's... Never take the young ones seriously. In their 30's they have a little experience and more focused with the finances and priorities and that when they wan to level down with reality but we all know that the P**** looks like a half boiled chicken by then. lol.
    It's kind of sad, but I'll be damned if it isn't true. The younger generations are growing up in a completely different world than the 40+ year old guys on here that are advocating for the nice guy approach. That's a lost cause. When those guys were sowing their oats, you had to troll the bar to pick up girls. Being a "slut" was a bad thing and girls were far more selective about who they slept with. Women were always attracted to the bad boys, but they were less likely to act on it because it sullied their reputation and impeded on their ability to tie down a nice guy in the future. Try that nice guy approach with the under 30 crowd today and you'll end up a virgin through your 30s and probably wind up shacking up with a divorcee later on in life that's tired of sleeping around and wants to settle down with someone... dependable? Reliable? A safe bet, for lack of a better word.

    Nowadays, being loose is OK, and sometimes even considered cool or empowering. Nobody's trolling the bar or putting in work anymore... you swipe right or left and fuck whoever, whenever without consequence. The times have changed. You can either adapt and thrive or dig your heels in at your own expense.

    I know it sucks, and it may not be the most noble approach to dealing with women. It is what is though.
     
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    It's kind of sad, but I'll be damned if it isn't true. The younger generations are growing up in a completely different world than the 40+ year old guys on here that are advocating for the nice guy approach. That's a lost cause. When those guys were sowing their oats, you had to troll the bar to pick up girls. Being a "slut" was a bad thing and girls were far more selective about who they slept with. Women were always attracted to the bad boys, but they were less likely to act on it because it sullied their reputation and impeded on their ability to tie down a nice guy in the future. Try that nice guy approach with the under 30 crowd today and you'll end up a virgin through your 30s and probably wind up shacking up with a divorcee later on in life that's tired of sleeping around and wants to settle down with someone... dependable? Reliable? A safe bet, for lack of a better word.

    Nowadays, being loose is OK, and sometimes even considered cool or empowering. Nobody's trolling the bar or putting in work anymore... you swipe right or left and fuck whoever, whenever without consequence. The times have changed. You can either adapt and thrive or dig your heels in at your own expense.

    I know it sucks, and it may not be the most noble approach to dealing with women. It is what is though.
    It is not so bad. Afterall, you do not have to buy the cow if you get the milk for free.
    That leaves you with more time for your hobbies and friends, haha. :D
     
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    Instead of complaining about things, get seriously red pilled and realize this might be the best thing for Men in a long time.

    Men have been being conditioned to be servants and slaves to women for hundreds of years
    (Ever since the idiot "romantics" decided such a fairy tale was good).

    Now thanks to the SJW movement, women are now becoming just like the rest of all the sorry bastards and not in need of any special treatment, worship or servitude.

    Now men don't have to do all this expensive or tedious stuff for sex, simply see who wants some, meet up, have fun, go about your way and it's totally "empowered" and socially acceptable.
    Instead of being forced to be a domestic slave their entire life just to maybe get a bit of sex very rarely from a "wife", men can now just simply find willing people when they want it and not need any attachments.

    Men can be permanent bachelors if they want to be, with nobody questioning it & can enjoy the freedom to engage in primitive mating rituals with any other consenting adult without much worry.

    Men have the chance to seize back the "scarcity", if they learn to just say no to women unless it is in their own self interest.

    If you "need" a woman, you are going to be treated like a dreg. If you are very comfortable with yourself & enjoy plenty of self confidence and don't care about if you have a woman or not, then you'll have a much better chance at enjoying their company in a physical way.
     

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    Instead of complaining about things, get seriously red pilled and realize this might be the best thing for Men in a long time.

    Men have been being conditioned to be servants and slaves to women for hundreds of years
    (Ever since the idiot "romantics" decided such a fairy tale was good).

    Now thanks to the SJW movement, women are now becoming just like the rest of all the sorry bastards and not in need of any special treatment, worship or servitude.

    Now men don't have to do all this expensive or tedious stuff for sex, simply see who wants some, meet up, have fun, go about your way and it's totally "empowered" and socially acceptable.
    Instead of being forced to be a domestic slave their entire life just to maybe get a bit of sex very rarely from a "wife", men can now just simply find willing people when they want it and not need any attachments.

    Men can be permanent bachelors if they want to be, with nobody questioning it & can enjoy the freedom to engage in primitive mating rituals with any other consenting adult without much worry.

    Men have the chance to seize back the "scarcity", if they learn to just say no to women unless it is in their own self interest.

    If you "need" a woman, you are going to be treated like a dreg. If you are very comfortable with yourself & enjoy plenty of self confidence and don't care about if you have a woman or not, then you'll have a much better chance at enjoying their company in a physical way.
    Interesting way to look at it. I always looked at the traditional marriage as a social contract. Man makes the cheese, woman maintains the household. Of the wife isn’t cooking, cleaning, and ensuring the kids are taken care of, then she needs to be bounced for being a mooching bum.

    Oh well, skanks are free or cheap.
     
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    It is not so bad. Afterall, you do not have to buy the cow if you get the milk for free.
    That leaves you with more time for your hobbies and friends, haha. :D
    It's nice when you're young and knee deep in easy ass. It's not so nice when you're 40 years old and your options are limited to a bunch of divorcees with three different baby daddy's and a sexual history that rivals Jenna Jameson's. (I'm dating myself here, I know.)

    Call me insecure, shallow, whatever. I don't want to be wife'd up to a woman that has smashed 150 other dudes. If I could go back in time, I'd find my wife back when she was 18, marry her at 21 and skip the promiscuous part of my life altogether. The chase is always more fun the kill and random hookups gets old after a while anyway.

    That's just not a viable option anymore unless you're part of a close knit church down south that's still hanging on to the values of yesteryear. IMO, you might as well join the dark side :)
     

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    I just found out today that the first woman to ever sleep with me is a porn star now.... huh, i never thought she was that good looking in the first place. My buddy says, google this name and porn hub is the first site to pop up, so i click pictures and there she is, still looks the same lol.
     
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    Its just the "treat me like the pig I think I am" syndrome and I run like Forest Gump from these sad, sick women.
     
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    I just found out today that the first woman to ever sleep with me is a porn star now.... huh, i never thought she was that good looking in the first place. My buddy says, google this name and porn hub is the first site to pop up, so i click pictures and there she is, still looks the same lol.
    Pics or it didn't happen
     

    Texasflyer

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    Pics or it didn't happen
    Pics of me at 14 with a 22 yr old woman? Dude it was the 90's.... we didnt have pics or it didnt happen, we had swear to GOD. There was no google. That said, im not suprised that when i searched her she was doing mother/son incest porn.. valerie voxx lol. And yeah i was like she still isnt that hot, but she taught me where all the right spots are and what to do when i get there lol.
     

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    Pics of me at 14 with a 22 yr old woman? Dude it was the 90's.... we didnt have pics or it didnt happen, we had swear to GOD. There was no google. That said, im not suprised that when i searched her she was doing mother/son incest porn.. valerie voxx lol. And yeah i was like she still isnt that hot, but she taught me where all the right spots are and what to do when i get there lol.
    You slept with a 22 year old porn star at 14?

    If you ever find yourself in the Charlotte area I'll buy you a beer. Well played, sir.
     

    Texasflyer

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    You slept with a 22 year old porn star at 14?

    If you ever find yourself in the Charlotte area I'll buy you a beer. Well played, sir.
    Well im 40 now, and like i said she had a thing for young guys, and at least i kept my mouth shut when i got lucky as a kid lol. She wasnt a porn star then either, just a slut.
     

    308pirate

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    That looks like Helen Mirren? If so she did a sex scene with Cuba Gooding Jr in I beleive Shadowboxer and I gotta say I gagged so no... no I would not.
    That is her.

    I don't know how old you are, but at some point you'll be left with two choices fuck sexy women your age or spank the monkey.
     

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    It's kind of sad, but I'll be damned if it isn't true. The younger generations are growing up in a completely different world than the 40+ year old guys on here that are advocating for the nice guy approach. That's a lost cause. When those guys were sowing their oats, you had to troll the bar to pick up girls. Being a "slut" was a bad thing and girls were far more selective about who they slept with. Women were always attracted to the bad boys, but they were less likely to act on it because it sullied their reputation and impeded on their ability to tie down a nice guy in the future. Try that nice guy approach with the under 30 crowd today and you'll end up a virgin through your 30s and probably wind up shacking up with a divorcee later on in life that's tired of sleeping around and wants to settle down with someone... dependable? Reliable? A safe bet, for lack of a better word.

    Nowadays, being loose is OK, and sometimes even considered cool or empowering. Nobody's trolling the bar or putting in work anymore... you swipe right or left and fuck whoever, whenever without consequence. The times have changed. You can either adapt and thrive or dig your heels in at your own expense.

    I know it sucks, and it may not be the most noble approach to dealing with women. It is what is though.

    You can keep your hoes
     
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    Friendzoning just means that she is not interested in you. You just have to be man enough to accept that and move on to the next.
    Friend zone means you're not paying attention to her. Unless of course you've already dated then it means she wants to fuk you later but doesn't want to date you.
     

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    I went to school with an effeminate acting, Obama/Hillary/Biden supporting, wealthy Jewish realtor and developer who is surrounded by women friends. Some he's really attracted to and pines for.

    They all friendzone him, contact him to organize and throw wild parties, cry to him about their abusive boyfriends or husbands, some borrow money, one borrowed his new SL550 convertible when her badboy boyfriend left her homeless and footbound. She brought it back a week later along with a new boyfriend.

    Thats what being a nice guy and good listener will get you.
     

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    It may seem comical but its true, Never got such advice but i never was an emotionally ready person. Women thought i was hard and bad but i don't pour out my thought or emotion. I don't go around sending flowers and food. Or call ladies for long hours and i swear i have always had it good with women. Most are slut in their 20's... Never take the young ones seriously. In their 30's they have a little experience and more focused with the finances and priorities and that when they wan to level down with reality but we all know that the P**** looks like a half boiled chicken by then. lol.

    So cute these scammers trying to English.

    If this is true "i swear i have always had it good with women. Most are slut in their 20's" and there is a good chance that you are the typical Nigerian POS than hopefully you have AIDS. 🤷‍♀️
     
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    TheGerman

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    No women has ever accused me of being nice.

    I also banged the prom queen, a gold medalist olympic swimmer and married a rich chick.

    There may be a clue in there somewhere.
     

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    If you act like a real man, you don't have to treat ladies like whores to get them to like you.
    Yeah that's what I was thinking. Been hitched for almost 15 years now but I had my time in my early 20's. Never had to treat women like whores, at least I didn't intend to and had em crawling all over me. (Of course being young and in great shape helps a lot).

    My wife has her faults, and I wish her mother had raised her to do a few things around the house she doesn't do all that well at... that said, she's loyal as a junkyard dog, and pretty nice to look at too. I feel sure that I will die before she does, but if not, I will not be marrying another. Loyalty is BY FAR the most important aspect in any relationship, that goes double for a marriage.
     

    BuildingConceptsllc

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    I went to school with an effeminate acting, Obama/Hillary/Biden supporting, wealthy Jewish realtor and developer who is surrounded by women friends. Some he's really attracted to and pines for.

    They all friendzone him, contact him to organize and throw wild parties, cry to him about their abusive boyfriends or husbands, some borrow money, one borrowed his new SL550 convertible when her badboy boyfriend left her homeless and footbound. She brought it back a week later along with a new boyfriend.

    Thats what being a nice guy and good listener will get you.
    That's not "Being nice guy", That's being a door-matt and a wimp. There's a Massive difference. Be a damn MAN and women aren't an issue. Women like MEN, real MEN who work hard and are reliable but don't believe in all this new age b.s. stuff and don't say " how high" every time a good looking female asks them to jum.... Men expect women,to look, and act like women. Those women who do, also like MEN.
     

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    I worked in corrections for a bit. And visitation always confused me. Young, attractive women would come in and visit rough, older guys in jail. We had a wedding ceremony through the visitation window for a attractive 20 something marrying a murderer in his 50's serving a life sentence w/o parole. He would never get out or get to touch his bride yet they married.

    Another odd fact is the younger women rarely visited boyfriends in the same age range. I rarely seen a young women visiting a young inmate unless they were already married. Single women almost always visited older men.
     

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    I worked in corrections for a bit. And visitation always confused me. Young, attractive women would come in and visit rough, older guys in jail. We had a wedding ceremony through the visitation window for a attractive 20 something marrying a murderer in his 50's serving a life sentence w/o parole. He would never get out or get to touch his bride yet they married.

    Another odd fact is the younger women rarely visited boyfriends in the same age range. I rarely seen a young women visiting a young inmate unless they were already married. Single women almost always visited older men.
    So where all these young women out in the world? Whenever I'm in the store and kindly grandmother types volunteer advise on which tomatoes to buy, I finally realize they're hitting on me.
     

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    A couple typo and boom, I am a scammer and you hope i have AIDS. :oops: And then you go to bed telling yourself you're a good person. :oops:
    Have you ever seen a HIV patient ? Do you know what they have to go through ? Not nice @Eostech not nice at all.

    Ok let’s break this down.
    Typos don’t make you a scammer, trying to scam does.

    I go to bed telling myself I’m a good person? Funny but you know what they say about assumptions.

    So you English ok but maybe you can’t understand context? Scammer dying of aids = improvement.
     

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  • I went to school with an effeminate acting, Obama/Hillary/Biden supporting, wealthy Jewish realtor and developer who is surrounded by women friends. Some he's really attracted to and pines for.

    They all friendzone him, contact him to organize and throw wild parties, cry to him about their abusive boyfriends or husbands, some borrow money, one borrowed his new SL550 convertible when her badboy boyfriend left her homeless and footbound. She brought it back a week later along with a new boyfriend.

    Thats what being a nice guy and good listener will get you.


    They friendzoned that guy because he acted like a friend. There are specific means to communicate to a person that you are interested in a relationship, or even a casual hookup.

    There is actually nothing to overthink in this department. People give off cues in their actions. If a guy is doing a menagerie of nice and caring things for a woman acquaintance, verbally and physically, she will assume that he is trying to be her friend, or an older sibling, and will gravitate towards a friendship. If he wants a relationship, he mans up and states that point short and clear, without beating around the bush, and DEFINITELY without those *creepy asterisks*. If she accepts, good for him. If she rejects, or acts undecided, he politely acknowledges, wishes her well, and move on. You NEVER, EVER act needy or clingy around someone you are hoping will feel romantically towards you. That is the NUMBER ONE turn off for both genders. People want a mature adult partner who can share life experiences and memories with, not a whiny child who needs to be pampered and fussed over.
     

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    I think we have probabIy all had our hearts danced on a time or two at least.

    I was always the friend zoned guy in much of my youth and it took my step father pushing me into the gym daily and working construction every summer to build self confidence. I will say 25 years later it is kinda of fun and self-refreshing to run into the same girls that put me in the zone. They always wanna grab lunch or dinner and catch up with a few drinks.... I say "sounds great", but always know Im not gonna waste my time. All have several kids or ex-issues now and I have a great wife that stuck it out with me through no career and helped put me through pharmacy school in my 30s. ( she coulda walked for sure)

    I will say though one of the ones that hurt the most came back later and apologized and told me she NOW realizes she would have had such a better life with me. It was touching and did heal old wounds.... but of course she has three kids by three different men and not married to any of them......

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    Blue Sky Country

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  • I think we have probabIy all had our hearts danced on a time or two at least.

    I was always the friend zoned guy in much of my youth and it took my step father pushing me into the gym daily and working construction every summer to build self confidence. I will say 25 years later it is kinda of fun and self-refreshing to run into the same girls that put me in the zone. They always wanna grab lunch or dinner and catch up with a few drinks.... I say "sounds great", but always know Im not gonna waste my time. All have several kids or ex-issues now and I have a great wife that stuck it out with me through no career and helped put me through pharmacy school in my 30s. ( she coulda walked for sure)

    I will say though one of the ones that hurt the most came back later and apologized and told me she NOW realizes she would have had such a better life with me. It was touching and did heal old wounds.... but of course she has three kids by three different men and not married to any of them......

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    I will say though one of the ones that hurt the most came back later and apologized and told me she NOW realizes she would have had such a better life with me.
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    To which your reply should be: "Well, it's a bit too late now, and time cannot be turned backwards. Do the best with what you have and have a great life"...
     

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    I will say though one of the ones that hurt the most came back later and apologized and told me she NOW realizes she would have had such a better life with me.
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    To which your reply should be: "Well, it's a bit too late now, and time cannot be turned backwards. Do the best with what you have and have a great life"...
    I used that on a skag I was dumb enough to get involved with in the late 90's who cheated on me. She re contacted me twice over the years to tell me "Well, I've been married and divorced." like I gave a shit. After repeated calls without leaving a message the second time I told her if she called me again I was going to file a stalking charge on her.

    Then the dumb bitch called back after I hung up and said "Lets just let this lay." I asked "Let what lay?" She said "You and me." I laughed and said sarcastically "...Ok." She added "I don't even know you any more." I told her "You just never knew me when I wasn't miserable. Have a good life." *click
     
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