Being an EM Grunt 69/70 I grew to hate ANYONE that wanted to be called SIR and anyone that insisted on it unless they deserved it, whereupon the word came out of my mouth freely as I respected them and felt they should be called that.
I had to deal with ROTC, OCS, and any one of a number of other programs that made people "Officers." and found that in my MOS there were few that even understood what I was talking about, but they were "Sirs"
Today I was talking to a man working on our range and he called me Sir, I quickly told him my name is Mike, Foul Mike, Asshole or whatever you want to call me but "Please don't call me Sir again."
I did not go into the tirade of "I work for a living" or "My parents were married when I was born"or "I don't suck cocks and don't kneel"
I was very respectful and flat out asked the man to NEVER refer to me as "Sir" again as I find it very offensive and explained it to him. He did not do it again and we got along well.
In my time in the Army I came upon a lot of them, some good and a lot not so good but they had the bars and rank.
I dealt with some Ring Knockers, both good and bad, and lots of puffed up others from the rank and file of wherever they got their education and the title "Sir."
My best interactions were with Mustangs other than an outstanding NG Officer, wheat farmer from Kansas, who had been activated and the occasional Officer who just had his shit together. They were few and far between and all of them would at least listen to what you had to say and maybe stop by your hole to get your opinion and go with that.
I had no problem calling them Sir.
Am I alone in this where I NEVER want ANYBODY to call me "SIR"? and feel it is an affront? a sign of disrespect? FM