For me with the .260 Rem gas gun, 130gr is the sweet spot. I like the 130gr VLD, but my chamber was cut by GAP for VLD's in mind, feeding from the mag, so I don't have crazy jump to the lands.
Necking down .308 brass is going to be tedious, as you will have to neck trim, especially with the DPMS chamber. I have to full length size virgin Lapua brass to get it to feed in my current .260 Rem.
If you can't get 130gr VLD's, 130gr Norma GT's are awesome, as are 129gr SST's. I also agree that H4350 is a go to powder in the gasser. Mine shoots the 139gr-142gr target pills really well, but I beat them for trajectory and match them for wind because of speed.
Remove the aluminum DPMS gas block and get a quality steel one from JP, Badger, etc. Aluminum gas blocks expand and lose the seal, causing gas leakage and short stroking. They don't belong on a .260 Rem gas gun, and I don't think there is a place for them on any other AR15 or AR10 either for this reason.
43.0gr of H4350 behind a 130gr from Lapua brass is too hot in the gasser for me. I'm really pushing it if I go over 41.0gr behind a 130gr with Lapua brass, but I'm ok when using necked down 7mm-08 brass, which has more capacity than Lapua .260 Rem brass in the lots I have of both.
I have permanently damaged at least 4 FPRPins over the years, and I'm now using an enlarged firing pin to fill out the .080" FP hole of the DPMS bolt face, which does not support the primers enough in this caliber when shooting H4350 and long pills. The new pin seems to be working as designed, but the best solution is a smaller pin and hole, like on the Armalite guns with their .068" hole.