Lost another great one (updated)

coldboremiracle

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    This morning just before sunrise. My Grandfather, Anthony P. Hafen, passed away. After complications from surgery, it was his wish to not return if he wouldn't be whole and independent.

    My mother's Dad, from whom I inherited the lion share of my firearm affections, and afflictions. The man who took me shooting and fishing as a boy, and made hanging around with Grandpa one of the funnest things I ever did. My brothers and I always looked forward to going to Grandpa's house, there was always something fun and semi-educational to do there.

    Grandpa was extremely proud to have served our country with the 213th FAB Utah Army National Guard, he spent two years in Korea "mostly killing Korean's" as he put it, shooting the 155mm and driving 105's. He was very active in reunions and keeping track of his fellow veterans. His love for artillery, guns, shootings things, and blowing shit into the sky was contagious. After his military service, he also was a LEO with the Utah Highway patrol. And later still (when I was a child) he had his own construction/demolition company, where he put his experience with explosives to good use. I remember many times going to watch Grandpa blow something up.
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    Always an outdoors man, he never seemed as happy as when we were afield or afloat. Even as age took its toll on him, he continued to push himself to come hunting with the rest of us. Just a short two months ago, we were 80 miles from here in some of the most beautiful country there is chasing Elk together. I felt a heavy sorrowful pain in my heart when he announced that he was leaving camp that day, tag unfilled. I feared deep down inside that it would be one of, if not the last hunt for him. Turns out my fears were well founded.

    I was pleased to find out today that he will be buried in a military plot with the typical military burial service, and salute. My uncle, Grandpa's youngest son, will be returning from A-stan this weekend for the funeral.

    The knowledge that we will be together again someday, keeps us smiling inside while our faces show otherwise. I am proud to have come from such a man, while imperfect in many ways, he was still a good man, and a great Patriot, and my Grandpa.
     
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    Seems like a helluva great guy!! When someone like him passes we all lose, and the world is that much duller.

    I'm not sure they make people like him anymore.

    Sorry for your loss, bud.
     
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    I could only pray that one day when I pass on that my grandson could write something as eloquent of a tribute that you just wrote. I am sorry for your loss.
     
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    <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JSTARSZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I could only pray that one day when I pass on that my grandson could write something as eloquent of a tribute that you just wrote. I am sorry for your loss. </div></div>
    Those are powerful words, and worth repeating. Condolences and prayers, sent. Rejoice in the relationship that you had with your grandfather, as many have not had that luxury.
     
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    A tip of my hat to a fine man and my condolences to you and your family. Be thankful for the times you had with him and the memories you created. When the sadness comes look back to the good times and memories to help you through it. God Bless.
     
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    ColdBoreMiracle...I feel your pain, man. I lost my grandpa 12 years ago and it hasn't gotten any easier to deal with.

    As Mike said above, the world has lost a great man...something we need many more of.

    My prayers and condolences to you and your family during this time of heartache.
     
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    Sorry for your loss. This nation was built on the backs of men like your granfather. In his day a mans word was golden and actually meant something.

    Like has been said, his passing is our loss, prayers go out to you and your family.
     
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    Thanks guys for the prayers and concern, I do treasure the good times we had, and the memories I'll keep. Particularly the ones that involved fishing and dynamite.
    To add insult to injury, Grandpa had worn glasses his whole life, and his vision had been getting worse. To the point that he started to consider selling some of his scoped rifles since they were useless to him. The surgery he underwent last week was to fix his eyes, which it did. My parents were there with him afterward. He was so excited, he said he hadn't seen that well since high school. It was only a short few days that he got to enjoy his sight again.
    Just had a chat with my mom, looks like I get to speak at his funeral, not that I'm good at it, or enjoy public speaking, but I look forward to having the honor to speak of someone. Particularly someone so special to me, and in front of so many others who feel as I do.
     
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    Good to hear there are others that have that kind of respect for a truly great generation. I lost my grandfather a few years back also, I am a diesel mechanic, he had given me an old cable come-a-long. I used it until it was down to one strand of cable holding it together and then took it into a chain and wire rope place to have it re-strung. The guy started to give me his speel about how it would be cheaper to just throw it away and replace it...I stopped him and explained that my grandfather had given it to me...he said "enough said, we will get right on it and you can pick it up this afternoon". He was a truly great man also and taught all of us grandkids many things, not the least of which is how to conduct yourself as a man...he to, will never be forgotten! Again, didn't mean to jack the thread and my condolences to you...just kind of struck a chord with me.
     
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    So we got back from southern Utah, it was a great funeral service. I had actually never been to a military funeral before, and I was pleased with how things went. I was a little disturbed though with the one gentleman who accidentally discharged his weapon on the "aim" command, the American Legion did the service, and they did an ok job.
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    I had done a little inquiry before the service and asked the Sgt at arms if they could incorporate Grandpa's M1 in the volley, turns out he knew Grandpa personally, and they fought together in Korea. He was very happy to shoot Grandpa's rifle during the service. Thats him:
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    Adds a little more sentimental value to the rifle.

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    True to form, Grandpa required that his grandson's wear the appropriate attire for pallbearer duty. Camo pants, white shirt (<span style="color: #FF0000">without a tie!</span>),suspenders, and the boutineer was made of a flower, and a .270 Win case. We were all thankful for that.
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    It was a nice service, and a good sendoff to a very special man for so many people.
     
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    Sorry for your loss. It looked like a very nice service. Your family is very lucky have had the kind of man that any family could be proud of.
     
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    My prayers are with you. My grandfathers died when I was in my late 30s, but my younger wife still has her paternal grandfather, who served through North Africa and Italy in WWII. Every chance she gets, she spends time with him, as every day is precious. You honored your grandfather, and the love and pride is most evident.
     
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    Its a hard and odd place to be in one's life to know that he has no more and will never call out again for Grandpa, a large hollow spot in your sole which I don't foresee being filled. With the two we were blessed with, you could not ask for a better example of human beings on completely opposite ends of the spectrum. The teachings and guidance of these MEN is not only hard to live up too but to follow and try to pass on should be a goal for every son\grandson. The world is in a darker place without him, unless we choose to share his brightness endowed within us with those among us whether its the way we live, shoot, or blow the shit out of something just for the hell of it. He will be missed.