Re: Need help spending money
I know this ISN'T the answer you want to hear, everyone wants to know what'S "BEST", right?
Fact is, ESPECIALLY at your present level, get any steel/iron single stage press and conventional dies you wish. ALL of them are actually quite good. Trust me, it will take a LOT of reloading, experimenting and shooting, years, before you can attain the experience/skill to need any of the more expensive, fancy tools. By that time you will have your own opinions and won't need to ask the web what to get.
Keep it simple and basic for now, spend your money on bullets, powder, primers and cases.
I'd strongly suggest the Lee Classic Cast press, it's as good as any in its design class and better than some. Any dies at all, including Lee's "Delux" set which includes a full length resizer AND a neck sizer, PLUS a shell holder. Get a manual powder measure + bench stand and scale; Redding's 3BR measure is great, so is their powder trickler and #2 beam type scale.
You will want a dial or digital 6" caliper to measure stuff; case`length, OAL, etc,. Get one of the inexpensive (Chinese) types from MidwayUSA or Harbor Freight for $12-15 on sale. (Reloaders WON'T find any added benefit from the identical models sold by RCBS at 3-4x the price, or from any expensive "professional" grade calipers/micrometers!)
Forget trying to find a particular manual to match a bullet. That's just not particularly helpful since nothing we can change in any book load has as much effect as the rifle we use. That single fact serves to make all book data generic by bullet weight!
You will want more than one manual and, again, they are all quite helpful but get a Lyman Reloading Manual first. Lyman has the most comprehensive, well illustrated and easy to read beginner/starter info available, and some really good advanced info too. (Take all of anyone's "commercial" photos as generic tho!) Lyman's loading tables are quite extensive, with suggestions on what might shoot best. And they have no need to promote any brand of powder or bullet.
Get a really good reloading bench, two or three times the size you first think if that's possible. And have storage shelves/cabinets, lots of storage for more "stuff" than you might dream of, stuff accumulates and multiplies by itself! And install lots of good lighting over your bench top. I use two quad tube 48" floresecent fixtures over my 22"x 8' bench - that's wide enough, just wish it was longer but that was all of the room I had!
I'd like to be more helpfull but it's a long drive to western NC!