Re: reloading 300WM...
As far as bumping shoulders, here is what I've been taught.
As you load a round hotter and hotter, it will get to the point where it actually causes the action/bolt to stretch (then spring back), enough that the brass can stretch to a dimension longer than the original chamber it was fired from. This is what causes heavy bolt lift. This is the extreme end of shoulder movement. But lesser loads will do this incrementally.
The stronger the action and weaker the load, the less likely that this will happen. I've heard of guys NEVER bumping shoulders. But they're not speed junkies.
.02
John