Correct me if I'm wrong, but you don't ever want to wipe the actual lenses when they are wet. It removes the coating. Shaving cream is an infantry do-all, just under 100mph tape and 550 cord, but I wouldn't use it, especially on NODs I own. Its used to clean weapons and all kinds of shit prior to inspections.
I'm assuming you have the proper demist shield and sacrificial window for the 14's? If not, that's a good place to start. Those "can" be wiped and should have come with your NODs no matter where you got 'em I'd hope.
Another thing you can use, and I'm still trying it out and so far so good, is a replaceable sacrificial window that threads in, and a small modification to the eyepiece that allows a snap on, thick rubber eyepiece with an amber window. There is no cup (though you can swap 'em out if need be). The amber filter helps prevent the green glow you get without the eye cup; it works fairly well at it. As a result, the image is tinted sort of a yellowish color vs. straight green. Something to consider. There is no pocket to collect warm air I'd think, provided you keep your NODs away a bit. Another thing to try are goggles, either ESS, which are great and come in laser resistant lenses, or better for most NV use IMO, the Revision Exoshield. It's guaranteed not to fog up and they came free with my NODs. They fit snug and seal to your face, just over your eyes, zero to almost zero blind spots, and fit around a helmet or under or w/o one with velcro straps. Low profile, SF shit. Really nice, clear, good eye pro, flexible use, and if you have fogging problems, these may be the cheapest sure fix. I was VERY, very impressed with these goggles, and ironically, I wouldn't ever have ordered them on my own: TNVC gave them to me free with my 14's. But now I'll be using those or the ESS with the green laser lens, depending, when I use my NODs. Yeah, I wear eye pro with my NODs. I used the ESS ten years ago in the army and they work well and will fix your problem and take several different types of lenses too, but I have to say I like the Revision Exoshield for regular, everyday clear and low-pro eye pro with the NODs. They're made for it.
TNVC sells these and other accessories for PVS-14 night vision and have been an awesome company to work with, can't say enough good about their CS and the guys that work there. And you can PM those guys right here on the Hide too. They'll answer your questions without selling you on shit which is nice also.
Wilcox makes the amber filter, $59 and the sacrificial window, $30 with 6 replacement windows, $55. But you can put the six replacements off 'til later. Or not get that special sacrificial Wilcox window part at all. But it allows you to use a Butler Creek flip up for your daylight pinhole filter if you so choose, and does cost less down the road if you replace windows. You could even forgo the amber filter, as I don't know whether it helps with YOUR fogging or not, but you'll need good goggles to fix your problem then. The Exoshield goggles are $40 and worth every penny IMHO.
This is part of their (Revision's) ad from TNVC:
"This is the best anti-fog coating on the market. We cannot get these goggles to fog… period. Anyone who uses night vision often, should be running EXOSHIELDs."
Hope that helps. I had a BAD fogging problem in the army and I tried everything, and nothing really worked until we got those ESS goggles for the first time in '02 or so. I still use both now, but again, I prefer the lower profile Exoshield over ESS for clear lens NODs use. Sorry so long winded, but this will fix your problem. Happy holidays.