Re: Divorce help
Seen this too many times to too many young sailors.
Check w/ the JAG at your FOB or wherever and find out if you use military resources in country if it prevents her from using them in CONUS. There is a conflict of interest for military lawyers but I can't remember the specifics. One of my sailors delayed seeing JAG and the Navy JAG was unable to assist him even w/ legal counseling let alone representation because she got there first. He had to pay for a civilian lawyer $$$$$$$$$.
Heed well the advice when it comes to confronting her (ie: do it in public with someone videoing).
Watch your texting, e-mail, Facebook etc. MAKE NO COMMENT!! Better yet cancel all accounts and retain the e-mail that says you did (time and date) just in case your pass word is compromised. Make a dedicated e-mail for communicating w/ her.
For money, CC's, loans, mortgage, property etc. seek legal council to determine what you can and cannot do. Remember YOU are probably responsible for the payment of any debt and it would be wise to ensure that the bills are not in arrears.
Good Luck!!! Keep your head in the game and let the legal beagles do their jobs for you.
Cheers,
Doc