yeah I use one of those rcbs dispensers where you type in the charge and press dispense and it weighs it until at the amount wanted. I don't want my gun blowing up on me. I also measure every bullet, and if its over .1 grain I put it back in and redo it. If the bullet is .0025 over I pull it out and redo it (I don't have my micrometer seater yet) I measured my lands a few times. I do like to take pride in my work (if it works out like I want it to)
Is your scale on a level and stable surface? Have you verified it with checking weights?
I would also check the case length, along with smoking the neck of a case with a bullet only, NO PRIMER/NO POWDER and cycling it carefully through the action.
"measured it with the hornady thread on thingy" ???
Have you tried seating a projectile in the case ~0.100" with no crimp, cycling it carefully through the action so the lands push it back into the case, and then measuring the COAL?
Back off the lands another .010-.020 or load to book listed COAL (if book COAL is shorter).
Also, cross check your load data!
I shoot a cartridge with the same projectile, similar case capacity, but a SAAMI rating of nearly 10,000 PSI LESS! and the book lists my loads as 43-46.3gr of IMR4831 with a 140gr projectile. Apples and Pears, I know, but its something that should be double checked if you're having primer issues.
Speaking of, what primers are you using?
Look into "SEE" Secondary Explosion Effect
-John