My experience has been kind of like yours with my particular rifle. I assume it's the barrel, or some other variable as opposed to the cartridge design itself, but the "pick a speed and load them up" cliche has not been the case for me. I've developed loads for a lot of rifles, and this one has just been kind of a pain, with some dead ends that looked good and then blew up later without a clearly discernable reason, finicky is a good word for it. Anyway, the real solution is probably to get another barrel, and not waste a bunch of time on StaBall next time around (although I've also tried Varget, AR-Comp and RL16, with the latter performing the best).