Finding a wife
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Go back and read the posts on the so-called “trad-wives.” The church girls are also covert feminists.
I'd probably burst into flames upon crossing the threshold.
My old man kinda ruined that whole thing for me when he beat our asses for minor infractions and anything that was "of the devil", like dancing, singing or listening to non-gospel music, having "idle hands" or disagreeing with him.
HUGE mistake (repeat this in signature Trumpish voice).
Western men see these types and think they get their wet dream of a meek submissive woman who will do anything they ask and such.
If you know more about the culture there and the actual women, you'd understand they all see men as essentially beasts of burden and paychecks that they can milk for everything they can to support not just themselves but an entire family of them.
Also most forget that in many of those countries, when it comes to actual domestic stuff, the women essentially bully the men into doing what they want, regardless of the outward appearances.
Also remember they are interested in marrying you for your money and for a visa.
The moment they get their hands on those, you are nothing but a pay pig.
There are some very good women in our Church and our Church is probably one of the best places to have a stable marriage and raise good children.
However humans are humans and there is still divorce and still people being greedy and selfish because of free will.
There are also many women who are dedicated and wonderful & have great marriages all their lives.
BUT the good marriages that last are based on a true partnership with both parties loving Heavenly Father most of all, and both parties having a view that they have made vows for all eternity and are willing to work through things. Both parties have to be actively involved in the marriage and both discuss matters and agree on things.
It's hard work.
Let's just say one of my brothers is a helicopter pilot in the Army.
His last wife was from the Philippines.
Our whole family was praying for her to die...
Once our prayers were answered, he didn't learn his lesson and proceeded to find another girlfriend from the Philippines.
(He's stationed in Korea and Koreans are totally racist to pale faces).
They weren't even engaged and she called my brother's mother and threatened to make a bunch of trouble for her son (my brother) and file a whole bunch of false allegations against him unless he promptly paid off all her debts and gave her a bunch of spending money to send back home.
Your mileage may vary but just you know be warned...
Long video but worth it.
Pearl really has something against the so-called "Christian" women. Her opinions are not without justification. Also note Pearl's comments about women who choose career first.
When they do that, "they were lied to." As Pearl correctly notes, the "career women" chose that path and won't take any accountability for their actions. They still need to blame someone else.
I'll have to watch the videos later,
BUT
here is a fun thing to think about.
One woman is probably making a lot of money (or at least some) doing videos, warning men of the dangers of other women.
So you know she's using men as well in her own way.
This is similar to many of the other "friendly advice for men" channels on YouTube and others.
Essentially men are so screwed every which way (except the way they want)...
That is always a possibility but Pearl has been demonetized for what she said in the past. If she's trying to grift, she isn't doing a very good job of it.
Erin of Far From Eden hasn't made much money either for being a men's advocate.
There a lots of feminized simps who take up for the women so why isn't is possible for some women to become men's rights advocates?
Dr. Helen Smith was a one time feminist who practiced psychology in New York City. After she built up a practice with a lot of male patients who were abused by women she had to overcome her feminism and face a paradigm shift. Her first foray into the public eye was when she wrote the book "Men On Strike." She's still an outspoken men's rights advocate.
The one thing that I see in common with these women is that they aren't telling us to "man up" like other so-called "conservative" women. They are warning us of the dangers we face when entering into a relationship with a woman.
We don't need women to tell us that because the empirical evidence is overwhelming. However, it's still refreshing to see women call out other women.
If these women, and others like them, are making money by speaking up for men and they are honest about it, then I'm all for them profiting. They deserve something for their efforts.
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The picking here are just as bad or worse, once you start testing them.
This video is about the child support calculator. Best quote of the video: "If you are ever going to get married, ask for their credit report." Consider yourself warned.
I think that you give them too much credit by saying covert feminists. Like they even have the necessary self-awareness and personal responsibility to think and act in a covert manner. "Woman want what other women want." This reality coupled with their vulnerability to any sort of "social contagion" and you get what you get. Our current disaster.
There are worse fates, I remember a thread on here where a guy was complaining about his lazy son who apparently took after his grandfather, except "grandpa had grandma who constantly whipped his ass into shape"
Poor grandpa
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