Finding a wife
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Go back and read the posts on the so-called “trad-wives.” The church girls are also covert feminists.
I'd probably burst into flames upon crossing the threshold.
My old man kinda ruined that whole thing for me when he beat our asses for minor infractions and anything that was "of the devil", like dancing, singing or listening to non-gospel music, having "idle hands" or disagreeing with him.
HUGE mistake (repeat this in signature Trumpish voice).
Western men see these types and think they get their wet dream of a meek submissive woman who will do anything they ask and such.
If you know more about the culture there and the actual women, you'd understand they all see men as essentially beasts of burden and paychecks that they can milk for everything they can to support not just themselves but an entire family of them.
Also most forget that in many of those countries, when it comes to actual domestic stuff, the women essentially bully the men into doing what they want, regardless of the outward appearances.
Also remember they are interested in marrying you for your money and for a visa.
The moment they get their hands on those, you are nothing but a pay pig.
There are some very good women in our Church and our Church is probably one of the best places to have a stable marriage and raise good children.
However humans are humans and there is still divorce and still people being greedy and selfish because of free will.
There are also many women who are dedicated and wonderful & have great marriages all their lives.
BUT the good marriages that last are based on a true partnership with both parties loving Heavenly Father most of all, and both parties having a view that they have made vows for all eternity and are willing to work through things. Both parties have to be actively involved in the marriage and both discuss matters and agree on things.
It's hard work.
Let's just say one of my brothers is a helicopter pilot in the Army.
His last wife was from the Philippines.
Our whole family was praying for her to die...
Once our prayers were answered, he didn't learn his lesson and proceeded to find another girlfriend from the Philippines.
(He's stationed in Korea and Koreans are totally racist to pale faces).
They weren't even engaged and she called my brother's mother and threatened to make a bunch of trouble for her son (my brother) and file a whole bunch of false allegations against him unless he promptly paid off all her debts and gave her a bunch of spending money to send back home.
Your mileage may vary but just you know be warned...
Long video but worth it.
Pearl really has something against the so-called "Christian" women. Her opinions are not without justification. Also note Pearl's comments about women who choose career first.
When they do that, "they were lied to." As Pearl correctly notes, the "career women" chose that path and won't take any accountability for their actions. They still need to blame someone else.
I'll have to watch the videos later,
BUT
here is a fun thing to think about.
One woman is probably making a lot of money (or at least some) doing videos, warning men of the dangers of other women.
So you know she's using men as well in her own way.
This is similar to many of the other "friendly advice for men" channels on YouTube and others.
Essentially men are so screwed every which way (except the way they want)...
That is always a possibility but Pearl has been demonetized for what she said in the past. If she's trying to grift, she isn't doing a very good job of it.
Erin of Far From Eden hasn't made much money either for being a men's advocate.
There a lots of feminized simps who take up for the women so why isn't is possible for some women to become men's rights advocates?
Dr. Helen Smith was a one time feminist who practiced psychology in New York City. After she built up a practice with a lot of male patients who were abused by women she had to overcome her feminism and face a paradigm shift. Her first foray into the public eye was when she wrote the book "Men On Strike." She's still an outspoken men's rights advocate.
The one thing that I see in common with these women is that they aren't telling us to "man up" like other so-called "conservative" women. They are warning us of the dangers we face when entering into a relationship with a woman.
We don't need women to tell us that because the empirical evidence is overwhelming. However, it's still refreshing to see women call out other women.
If these women, and others like them, are making money by speaking up for men and they are honest about it, then I'm all for them profiting. They deserve something for their efforts.
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The picking here are just as bad or worse, once you start testing them.
This video is about the child support calculator. Best quote of the video: "If you are ever going to get married, ask for their credit report." Consider yourself warned.
I think that you give them too much credit by saying covert feminists. Like they even have the necessary self-awareness and personal responsibility to think and act in a covert manner. "Woman want what other women want." This reality coupled with their vulnerability to any sort of "social contagion" and you get what you get. Our current disaster.
There are worse fates, I remember a thread on here where a guy was complaining about his lazy son who apparently took after his grandfather, except "grandpa had grandma who constantly whipped his ass into shape"
Poor grandpa
About as true as its gets,... in the last 10 years I've been looking
Bonus video. This girl should be put in the fun-zone. If any of you gents want to meet up with her, I would suggest using an alias and getting a burner phone. Bring a kitten with you on the first date and once you tear her away from the cat, she might do ANYTHING for you. Remember - fun-zone only.
This might seem like a strange post and you all might wonder why I am posting something more like a history lesson than anything to do with this thread. Nevertheless, please bear with me.
The video is about Union MAJ Sullivan Ballou and a letter that he wrote to his wife before he was KIA at the 1st Battle of Bull Run a week later.
When you listen to the letter, the love that he pours out for his country, his family and his wife will tug at anyone's heart strings. It's the perfect example of 19th century "toxic masculinity" that women like to point to.
You know, it's the "toxic masculinity" that oozed and dripped from men that dominated the landscape before women "fought" for their "rights." MAJ Ballou was the epitome of what women hate in this century and the last one during the heady days of the suffragette movement.
Just a few days ago, very few of us remembered one of the greatest days of WWII when "toxic" manhood stormed the beaches of Normandy. There were other beaches and other battles in other wars when "toxic" men fought and died for their country, their families and their wives.
So I have to laugh whenever women tell me they should have the "right" to serve in combat. I have to laugh at the ones saying this and ask them why aren't they in uniform. I will spare you from that rabbit hole and get back on the the subject.
MAJ Ballou's letter is a tear-jerker; especially for the women. If any of you have a SWMBO, play this for her and watch her reaction. I'll give odds 10:1 that 99% of the women will say, "why can't you write me a letter like that?"
If they don't say it, they will be thinking it. I have the perfect answer for that question; "It works both ways bitch! What have you done to deserve a letter like that?"
I could write out a litany of reasons why 99% of the modern women don't deserve the sweat off our balls let alone a love letter comparable to MAJ Ballou's.
BTW, I cannot compare my deeds and love letters written for my ex-wives to MAJ Ballou's missive but I tried damned hard to make their lives more comfortable and stress free, only to get shit on. I know that I'm not the only one for there are many on this thread who've suffered at the hands of a toxic bitch, her attorney and the cunt judges. So I am not asking for special recognition. Just saying that I can identify with the rest of you.
Again, play this for the SWMBO and watch their reaction. If they ask you why can't you be like MAJ Ballou ask them what they've done to deserve it. Be ready for the fight.
The video is about Union MAJ Sullivan Ballou and a letter that he wrote to his wife before he was KIA at the 1st Battle of Bull Run a week later.
When you listen to the letter, the love that he pours out for his country, his family and his wife will tug at anyone's heart strings. It's the perfect example of 19th century "toxic masculinity" that women like to point to.
You know, it's the "toxic masculinity" that oozed and dripped from men that dominated the landscape before women "fought" for their "rights." MAJ Ballou was the epitome of what women hate in this century and the last one during the heady days of the suffragette movement.
Just a few days ago, very few of us remembered one of the greatest days of WWII when "toxic" manhood stormed the beaches of Normandy. There were other beaches and other battles in other wars when "toxic" men fought and died for their country, their families and their wives.
So I have to laugh whenever women tell me they should have the "right" to serve in combat. I have to laugh at the ones saying this and ask them why aren't they in uniform. I will spare you from that rabbit hole and get back on the the subject.
MAJ Ballou's letter is a tear-jerker; especially for the women. If any of you have a SWMBO, play this for her and watch her reaction. I'll give odds 10:1 that 99% of the women will say, "why can't you write me a letter like that?"
If they don't say it, they will be thinking it. I have the perfect answer for that question; "It works both ways bitch! What have you done to deserve a letter like that?"
I could write out a litany of reasons why 99% of the modern women don't deserve the sweat off our balls let alone a love letter comparable to MAJ Ballou's.
BTW, I cannot compare my deeds and love letters written for my ex-wives to MAJ Ballou's missive but I tried damned hard to make their lives more comfortable and stress free, only to get shit on. I know that I'm not the only one for there are many on this thread who've suffered at the hands of a toxic bitch, her attorney and the cunt judges. So I am not asking for special recognition. Just saying that I can identify with the rest of you.
Again, play this for the SWMBO and watch their reaction. If they ask you why can't you be like MAJ Ballou ask them what they've done to deserve it. Be ready for the fight.
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Wow!
Most men today couldn’t write something so poetic and beautiful, regardless if they had a true love or not.
Most women wouldn’t appreciate it anyway. It would only inflate their, already inflated, egos and leave them demanding more and giving less.
Hoeflation.
Paying more, for lower quality women, than men did in the past.
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This video reminds me of a scam that I think divorced women are pulling.
If an automobile is in the husband's name but there is a divorce, a court order will stipulate that the ex-husband must transfer ownership to the ex-wife.
Without getting into details, I've seen it happen that the ownership does not get transferred. The ex-husband forgets about it or has other things to do. The ex-wife won't push it. Why?
My theory is that if the ex-wives start demanding ownership transfer then they will now have to pay for the insurance. So if they get into an accident, they just say that the car belongs to their ex-husband.
Then he and/or the insurance company is on the hook if the ex-wife is at fault.
In my case, I went directly to the BMV after the final hearing and transferred ownership. My ex-wife was extremely pissed when I let her know that I signed the car title over to her and cancelled the insurance immediately. She was expecting me to continue paying for the insurance even though we were divorced! I've talked with other men who told me the same thing.
The video below is amusing but notice that she says the vehicle belongs to her ex-husband.
What's everyone think about my theory?
If an automobile is in the husband's name but there is a divorce, a court order will stipulate that the ex-husband must transfer ownership to the ex-wife.
Without getting into details, I've seen it happen that the ownership does not get transferred. The ex-husband forgets about it or has other things to do. The ex-wife won't push it. Why?
My theory is that if the ex-wives start demanding ownership transfer then they will now have to pay for the insurance. So if they get into an accident, they just say that the car belongs to their ex-husband.
Then he and/or the insurance company is on the hook if the ex-wife is at fault.
In my case, I went directly to the BMV after the final hearing and transferred ownership. My ex-wife was extremely pissed when I let her know that I signed the car title over to her and cancelled the insurance immediately. She was expecting me to continue paying for the insurance even though we were divorced! I've talked with other men who told me the same thing.
The video below is amusing but notice that she says the vehicle belongs to her ex-husband.
What's everyone think about my theory?
It's always fun when female Uniform Hanger deals with a Karen,
Male uniform hangers might have to put up with some B.S. when dealing with a Karen.
Female Uniform hangers don't have to put up with it or play nice.
Much like dark skinned Uniform hangers can oppress and brutalize other dark skinned citizens without care when a pale face Uniform Hanger might have to be careful.
Male uniform hangers might have to put up with some B.S. when dealing with a Karen.
Female Uniform hangers don't have to put up with it or play nice.
Much like dark skinned Uniform hangers can oppress and brutalize other dark skinned citizens without care when a pale face Uniform Hanger might have to be careful.
This guy hit the motherload and couldn't keep his wife. So what makes any of us average guys with average wages could do the same?
this is right in my limited exposure. i know about 6 guys of my age,60s-70s, who brought women back from VN,Thailand,Philippines. they all got nailed to a cross. from Russia 50/50. what i saw from my fathers ww2 gen they all had exc marriages. i am thinking a gen thing not cultural. limited samples,so?
Stay single and get a dog. Get a good buddy with the same mindset for a roommate, and live happily ever after.
I'd like to get another dog but unfortunately I'm gone too much of the day, it wouldn't be right. Especially since I like high energy, spastic dogs. Perhaps my career will change in a few years and I can get a dog; or I'll have made enough money I can do something else.
I suppose I should learn to be content with my disposable income and enormous amount of free time, but, we always want what we don't have.
The answer is looking at the times of our country.
What was society pushing back in the 50s and early 60s?
What were the judges, courts and awards like back then?
What was socially acceptable back then?
When did our courts really start becoming packed with left wing liberals?
The real war on marriage 70s
It went into overdrive in hatred for men in the 00s
Women do what courts and society let them get away with.
That's the difference.
Also a lot of folks who lived through WWII saw the real horrors of life and war and were willing to stick around for happiness and not mess things up.
By the time the 70s rolled around it was all about me me me.
The problem started when women were given the right to vote.
used to hate the thought of getting old. the current "dating scene" (at least last 20yr) sucks as far as i see. being old lets one not give a shit. coming social credit score,dig money,economic crash due to 37 tril debt,much increased inflation,crime out of control all that i will not likely see to its conclusion. for guys < 50/60 i am most worried but with no power to change it. my grands,gr grands will suffer those. as i and many have said,we are not voting our way out.
So you shoot a 6.5 is what you’re telling us?
Lol nope. Just 54, wife recently moved out, and tired of the bullshit.
Just being real.
Just being real.
I've found that nothing in my shop gives me shit, about anything. When I go places I dress as I want, look at what I want, buy what I want, an tell people what I think right then. Yes, I have to do everything at home inside & out but that's a small price to pay for happiness. If I should Ever find one like my late wife, I'll happily revert to a married man again. However what I'm seeing out there says I'll be a widow until the end, and with the pickings I've seen so far I'm 200% good with that, even if the rental option goes away at some point. Nothing like true freedom from look at me, you will Simp for me, bitches.
I hear you. I’m approaching 20 years married to an amazing lady. So I sure got blessed for some reason, but I can sure see how men are just done with the drama and idiocy. A very wise man once told me “It’s better to be single than married to the wrong one.”
This.
Never married, and always thought I wanted that. Now at 75 I look around and think..."Damn, I was lucky."
I understand but a life with the right one, is heaven on earth. While have self pity party's on certain dates, I also have 39 years of memory's & photographs that remind me how lucky I was, for all those years,...
My doctor told me not to worry about old age , it doesn't last that long.
I can appreciate that. for most of my life I was way too angry and violent to have a life with anyone. How I survived surprised me.
Now that I've worked out most of that anger, I just dont want to be bothered with someone else's baggage, I have enough trouble putting up with my own. LOL
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