wife and i did the "21 day challenge" that was a thing a few years ago, i think kelly ripa made it popular of some shit
intimate/ sex for 21 days straight, sick, tired, whatever
the idea behind it was supposed to bring couples closer together and all that psychology stuff
the good;
yes knowing your going to get laid every day was actually a pretty good feeling lol
we'd joke around that we dont have to pay attention to each other and still get laid etc
to be honest out relationship (which is a pretty good marriage in general) did get better, less stress and overall cordialness and short answers were much less
the bad..yes there was a bad;
time, i was loosing sleep
kids are up until 9-930, get out of the shower and such i/we were getting to bed late
add in that because we were messing around more often sex started to take to long in general lol
it did begin to feel like work towards the end, like a task
of course after the challenge it went back to the regular "non regular" cycle that isnt enough for men lol
so for the answer..
if its the rest of your life id sign on for the 2x a week and hope another one gets thrown in
no sex is good enough for 1x a week
and guaranteed everyday is over rated, "everyday" is one thing but guaranteed/mandatory every day gets old